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Showing posts with label Salawesi. Show all posts

Friday, May 30, 2025

Indonesia's Weird and wonderful sights - curved house roof in Sulawesi island's Toraja region.

 

Hotel Sahid, Indonesia. Photo by Trevor Sharot. Copyright.

The Landscape
Sulawesi is one of the four greater islands of Indonesia. The big four are Java (the most people - overseas visitors in the past often started at the city of Jakarta), Sumatra (the biggest land area), Borneo (divided between Indonesia and Malaysia) and the last of the big four is interesting Sulawesi.
Makassa is the largest city in Sulawesi. 

People and Religion
The majority of the people are mostly nominally Christian, with some Muslims, but animistic belief and rituals are prevalent. The result is interesting architecture and festivals.

Architecture & Building Method
The distinctive rooftops are described as being boat shaped or saddle backed. 

Bamboo is used in the construction. The roofs are cantilevered (like an overhanging tray on a table with a weight on the tray on the table keeping it place). The roof is additionaly supported by vertical poles or supports from the ground, like tree trunks, at both ends of the house or hotel. 

Orientation and Decoration
The front of the house faces north-east, east for the rising sun which grows the rice and other crops.  The back of the house faces south-west.

The roofs and fronts of houses are decorated with panels of red which contrast with the green scenery of rice fields. The traditional colours are black and white, red and yellow. Red for life, on the front of the house. Another colour for death on the back of the house. Another symbol is the buffalo, for strength, power, wealth.

Language
Tana Toraja means Toraja land. Jalan is Indonesian for street.

Indonesian - English
aluk - the way
aluk to dolo - the way of the ancestors
to - of (like do in Italian) 
Jalan - street
sula - island
tana - land

English - Indonesian

island - sula
land - tana
street - jalan
The mountainous area is fertile.

Tourism
The big tourist attraction is the week-long funerals of ancestors. (The bodies are preserved until that time.) The funerals take place after the autumn harvest. 

This three-star hotel is in typical Toraja style. 
Indonesia has more than a thousand islands. Other well-known isalnds and popular places to visit in Indonesia are the traditional capital, Jakarta, and the islands of Bali, Batam, Bintan, and Lombok. I have other posts on other areas.
I am not a fan of komodo dragons. I saw enough large lizards looming, wandering freely in Singapore, where I lived, on and off, for thirty years, even in the Botanical gardens. But admiring ingenious and colourful, lovely architecture, in Indonesia, that's my thing. 

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Tuesday, September 13, 2022

Coping with bereavement - royal or personal

 


One thing the queen knew, that dogs are devoted to you and a comfort in times of trouble.

This photo is from Facebook, from my friend who introduced me to Toastmasters International, Indra.

Customs vary, the rich and the poor, the English and the Irish, the Christian and the Jewish, Victorian and modern, UK and China.

What are the steps in coping with bereavement?

1 The married or elderly person making a will and giving instructions regarding their burial or cremation, funeral or memorial. 

2 Paperwork. Refusal to believe it is about to happen, or has happened. Guilt. Anger. Acceptance. Moving on.

3 Display or transfer of Body. Viewing. Retrieving jewellery or placing it on the body. Travel.

4 Notices to relatives that somebody is dying, has died, and the funeral. (Protocol varies.)

5 Funeral includes speech by the nearest and dearest and/or a minister. Music. Readings. Order of service.

6 Burial. Return to relax at funeral tea. 

Wake. (In New Orleans a jazz music and dance parade celebration of the dead person gone to heaven.)

Letters of condolence. BOOKS of condolence. Cards. Thank you cards. Gifts to charity. Flowers. (Not for Jewish funerals.) Suitable wording. 

At a Jewish shiva, or evening prayers, you wish the family 'long life'. Why? Maybe to be positive and forestall the desire to commit suicide to be no longer alone or to join the loved one in heaven.

7 Will. Distribution of goods. Paperwork and taxes/probate.

8 Family agreement or argument!

9 Demonstration of grief - or appearing composed in public, crying in private.

19 Flashbacks, blaming self or others. Refusal to accept it. Anger. Stoicism. Depression. Relief (that suffering is over).

11 Dealing with well=wishers, and enemies or debt collectors.

12 Payment for funeral. Selecting tombstone and wording, giving dates of birth, and death, and survivors, and a motto or description. In Russia, Greece, and other countries, a photo or statue or monument showing the face and body and profession or hobby of the deceased.

13 House clearance.

14 obituaries - preparing and/or reading.

15 Preserving or disposing of or house clearance.

16 Distributing photos and mementoes.

17 Moving on - remarriage.

18 Consolation from pets or children or carers.

19 Talking it through.

20 Escapism. Holidays. Moving on. 

21 Lessons learned - for dealing with death, preparing one's own will and distributing one's own money, property or other assets.

22 Preserving fading memories. (Gravestone settled and visited on one year anniversary. "Stone-setting'.

23 In some countries the body is dug up and dressed in new clothes: 

A) (Sulawesi, Indonesia), set at a dinner table with the family. 

B) Madagascar, Africa.

Useful Websites

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/sep/13/whats-behind-the-mystery-of-thousands-of-excess-deaths-this-summer

https://community.sueryder.org/c/coping-with-bereavement

https://www.i4give.com/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_and_state_funeral_of_Elizabeth_II

Indonesia

https://directfuneral.com.sg/embalmers-and-what-exactly-do-they-do/?gclid=CjwKCAjw1ICZBhAzEiwAFfvFhJbouiaxEjekqc_oEEpIvW5VK2aHf9IPnzdQpSJa8-BghGa_8Xdz8xoCIvkQAvD_BwE

https://tribuneonlineng.com/families-dig-up-corpses-of-relatives-dress-them-in-new-clothes-in-indonesias-bizarre-festival-12-photos/#:~:text=festival%20(12%20PHOTOS)-,Families%20dig%20up%20corpses%20of%20relatives%2C%20dress%20them%20in%20new,Indonesia's%20bizarre%20festival%20(12%20PHOTOS)&text=Every%20August%2C%20families%20gathered%20to,of%20their%20ancestors%20in%20Indonesia.

https://nypost.com/2018/01/05/villagers-dig-up-dead-relatives-and-dress-them-in-bizarre-ritual/

Madagascar - new clothes on old bodies

Youtube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0FaItWmA0BQ

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