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Monday, September 29, 2025

Confusing Spanish Words

 


The Spanish word vino means wine. But it is also the past tense of come, came. So a moun looks like a verbe.

Spanish has more than one type of confusing words. At first count I can already see three types of confusing words.

1 Noun and Verb

As above. Vino and vino.

2 Changing Gender - eg Masculine feminine o and a

The tehnical term is vacillant gender. The word changes gender to agree with, look like and sound like another word. The adjective follows the noun, in word order, and follows, grammatically, in spelling. Usually o for a man and a for a woman like the names Mario and Maria. Would Mario be alto (tall) but Maria be alta (tall).

As a beginner you learn that alto is tall. Then you find that alta is tall. You wonder if you have a typo, or made a mistake and wrote it down wrongly, and can't read your own hand writing.

3 Words With Added Accents

One common word which has different meaning with and without accents is el.

El

Warning - wild elephants and wild animals can be dangerous

Elephants on clothes bought in Thailans.

Elephant visit, popular.

Elephant statue at hotel in Thailand

Elephant motif in reception of hotel in Thailand.

Elephant in the street.
 

We have fond memories of furry toys as children. Baby bears, elephants giving rides, even smiley crocodiles. The elephant is the national symbol of Thailand. I have clothes with elephant symbols. I have jewellery depicting elephants.

Wild Animals

But wild animals can be dangerous. They want food, including yours, such as sandwiches left in cars, or carried in carrier bags - especially if other tourists feed wild animals, but you bring food which they can smell but you are not willing to share. Just as many human mothers would protect their babies from an approaching strange snake, dog, or elephant, animals such as bears, tigers, crocodiles and elephants seek food, or protect their own young when unknown life approaches.

Wild Monkeys

So monkeys may snatch food and hats, or simply attack. They get into flats in Singapore, destroying furniture and furnishings. 

Wild elephants can be dangerous, not just the bggest, strongest males, but also females, wanting to frighten off or disarm approaching humans when their are baby elephants around. 

Poachers taking tusks and trophies would exascerbate the danger to tourists simply taking photos.

Guides And Safety

In theory local guides should know where animals roam and how to avoid being seen, and how to protect you from attack.

I recall going on a safari. We were warned to stay inside the vehicle. No arms out of the window holding camers. Arms of humans to wild elephants, look like insect legs to humans, tell the onlooker that something alive and smaller is moving about. Attract attention even from a distance by sudden movement.

Danger From Elephants

Apparently, as evident to me from a video, tourists were attacked, when they had been on canoes paddled like gondolas.

A canoe offers less protection and disguise than I would like in wild animal territory. Once out of a canoe, you have less protection.

A cat has whiskers. Motocades have outriders. Miners carried canaries. 

I am wondering whether out in the wild one could send something ahead. Up in the air, looking, like a drone.  Moving independently ahead, ike a child's  fist size car on wheels which can be pushed along a nursery floor and then races under its own stream, I meant steam, until it hits a wall.

Tourists tend to trust guides. Guides are supposed to take you to see animals, but keep you at a safe distance. But unless a wild animal is kept away, you are exposed..

Protection From Wild Animals

How can a wilkd animal can be kept away? In zood for photos, a wild animal can be kept on a chain, with a keeper holding it, a keeper with a weapon. 

Or in zoos kept away by a blockage such as a fence. At Singapore's night Safari by a deep ditch. With tourists behind trees, fences, or inside the walls of a windowed train. 

The news and the internet can entertain, and warn.

Useful Websites

Daily Mail 29 Feb Sept 2025 Video of elephant changing and hitting trunk on tourist tipped out of boat in Botswana.

 


Sunday, September 28, 2025

The NHS, Statistics, Danger & Safety Of Cousin Marriages


Cousin marriages of the world, one of several charts in Wikipedia, covering the world, and USA states.

 I married a second cousin, who is a statisticians, so I am interested in the statistics regarding first and second marriages and the health of the offspring of these marriages. We were aware, and worried about the dangers. 

We just knew vaguely about the types of dangers. Having seen friends' lives constantly disrupted, and parents' health suffering, and siblings not getting attention, I am even more concerned. 

I have now read that there are increased risks of babies dying at birth or under the age of five. Of being bed-bound for life. Of being non-verbal so they need supervision every moment of the day and whenever they go out.  Of one parent having two or more handicapped children, having decided it was God's will, or fate, or random so that they might have been luckier next time, but were not luckier. Worse still, an addiitonal type or risk, babies in Nepal born with eye cancer. 

Another risk is that the parent or step-parent might be exhausted or angry and torment an already suffering child. One can envisage a challenging child, who is crying, not talking, or apparently not co-operating, or just needed non-stop attention.

First Cousin Marriages

First cousin marriages are more dangerous, higher risk to offspring, than second cousin marriages. Siblings and parent child relationships, even riskier. Multiple generations of cousin marriages increase the risk. 

We had one child and having had a successful outcome, did not take further risks by having more. That was back in the nineteen seventies when we did our own research. Now the internet and newspapers provide ready access to everybody.

Relative Risks Of Cousin Marriages

In Setpember 2025 I read a claim that fewer than 10% of children being affected by health problems meant that the majority of couples were not affected. I regard that as a misleading statement. Low risk is not no risk. 

The low risk means cost of time, money, suffering of the handicapped, time needed lifelong from parents, and often forgotten siblings who have burdens of care and less attention and time from parents busy with attending to the handicapped, and services needed. This affects both the individual family, and the NHS and doctors, nurses, carers, grandparents, extended families, large families, insurance companies and treasurers, govenments, teachers and journalists.

When you look at the statistics of those affected, not just percentages, but numbers needing costly 24 hour lifelong care, from the point of view of The NHS, nurses, local dcctors, schools, and the national population, you are looking at a large number of people.

Even if you look at it from the point of view of any couple having a low risk, would you put your children in the queue of 100 children for a fairground ride if only 4-6 children would end up with a lifelong handicap? 

Families Affected By Risk Increased By Cousin Marriages

Let's look at a long street, or small village, or doctor's patients, or a social worker or a nurse doing a weekly or daily visit. We are not necessarily talking about 100 families having one child. If every family has two children, 8-12 parents are affected. If every family has four children, 16-24 families are affected. If they have eight children, 32-48 families are affected.  

One argument put forward in favour of allowing, or not preventing, or not warning against the risks, is that the risk is no greater than that of late births to older mother or older parents. 

Many people are against older parents having children. 

Firstly, many people choose to have children when younger to decrease that risk. 

Secondly, you cannot stop yourself  getting older, but you can choose to seek out a partner who is not closely related. 

Thirdly, if you are at risk, you can limit your family size, to reduce the risk of burden to the parents, and the firstborn, and society. 

Useful Websites

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15164631/More-TWO-child-deaths-week-linked-cousin-marriages-SUE-REID-risky-phenomenon-backed-NHS.html

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage




Hogging Hospital Beds In NHS Hospitals

 


When my father spent a month dying in hospital there were 2 problems.

 1 He was only treated for one problem, his heart. The foot specialist 2 doors along never visited. They said thrush had to be treated by his GP after Dad left hospital. But the thrush meant he could not walk.

Nor eat and swallow, so he starved to death and never left hospital. 

2 The hospital did not communicate to the social services that an urgent visit was required to get my father out of hospital. So social services supposed to arrange home care delayed visiting a few days. He died in hospital before they could fulfil his wish of going home to die.

The Reason For Potholes In Britain & Worldwide



Now I know why we have potholes.

1A new type of road surface constructions introduced a couple of decades back.

2 The new product not adhering to specifications and insufficient quality control (checking it was done right).

3 Lack of money allocated for maintanance, so we fixed holes instead of resurfacing the road as part of regular maintenance which should be done (about every five years, if I remember rightly. Maybe big motorwars, get more usage or were built at different times.

You can report potholes to your local council in Britain. Or write to your MP complaining.

Pothole Filling, Art, Humour

On a lighter note, a man in the UK has filled potholes. 

Another has planted flowers to alert people to avoid them and draw the council's attention humorously. Others have drawn animal faces with mouths, or other humorous pictures. 

Wikipedia had the story about Seinfeld TV series had an episode in which keys were lost, and found dropped into a pothole. The pothole was filled in and when you drove over it a tune played. Link in Wikipedia.

From my previous posts, whilst hunting for pothold pictures, I found this

USA
Chicago - mosaics in potholes - made by Jim Bachor, mosaic artist. Every year he has a new theme, such as ice cream of flowers, something attractive. He encourages publicity by leaving a goody bag for/from the Best Neighbour with instructions on how to post links to his artwork.

What to see in Chicago:
The C l o u d Gate in Millennium Park. (Spaces inserted in text to defeat what I shall call the automatic "spell spoiler".)
Pothole Art by Jim Bachor 'The Pothole Guy': approx 45 sculptures, since 2013
Artwork by Jim Bachor at Chicago city's Thorndale Red Line "L" station.

USA Tips
Update - http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4459346/Child-killed-3-adults-injured-truck-hits-car-NYC.html
More information from:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/item/0366e18c-09e6-4847-8afe-1e3977a9a81a?intc_type=singletheme&intc_location=bbcthree&intc_campaign=bbcthree&intc_linkname=article_mosaics_contentcard33
http://www.bachor.com/4600-north-kenton---map (where to see potholes he filled in Chicago)
http://www.bachor.com/pothole-installations-c1g1y (shows his mosaics in potholes)
http://www.bachor.com (shows his mosaics which are not in potholes)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Bachor (History including his commission 'Chicago Transit Authority that was installed in the city's Thorndale Red Line "L" station.'
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2656250/Talk-street-art-Chicago-artist-fills-citys-potholes-marks-one-beautiful-mosaic.html
http://chicagoist.com/2017/04/05/jim_bachor_pothole_art.php#photo-1
Jim Bachor is on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram

UK Pothole
In the UK, in the city of Manchester in the north of England, potholes have been outlined by prankster nicknamed Wanksy (for any foreign language readers, this is a pun on the name of graffiti artist Banksy, combined with an insulting rude word). W a n k s y (spaces inserted in text to defeat 'spell spoiler' (Angela Lansbury's term, coined today, 26 April 2017) which prefers winks) has used graffiti to draw penises around potholes to draw attention to them. I'm a fairly prudish person in some ways, when it comes to what is said, done, and painted in public places, but I think, for once, this is 'hilarious' (as the Daily Mail likes to say).

UK Tips
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/the-filter/11570595/Meet-the-man-using-penises-to-fill-potholes.html

Artistic or obscene? Amusing and practical? Both have their places in filling potholes.

Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer.

Update

Useful Websites

 https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=https://

www.thetimes.com/uk/transport/article/potholes-british-roads-real-reason-5b2rd0b03

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pothole

https://www.theguardian.com/artanddesign/gallery/2021/may/01/the-artist-who-fills-potholes-with-mosaics-in-pictures


Brixton Beautiful sights


Brixton underground railway station platform. The end station on the Victoria line going south from Kings Cross. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.


Colourful arched rainbow on Brixton's overground railway arches. 

On Lime. Bicycle.



The overground railway station which has statues of separate people standing on the platform. See Wiki for pictures.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brixton_railway_station#/media/File:Brixton_rail_station_statue_southbound.JPG
 

 Useful Websites

Overground railway line
Underground railway line
Bicycle Hire

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Saturday, September 27, 2025

Post Box Toppers - Mail box topper Halloween pumpkin

 

Post box in north west London. Yarn topper. Pumpkin. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright. 

This post box  was in Long Elmes by the H14 bus stop to Harrow. Sepember 27th 2025.
Post box toppers have been around since 2012. 

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Easy Spanish Words & Phrases

 


Spanish - English

barco - ship (like embark)

(de) beber - (to) drink (like the English words to imbibe, and beverage)

duro - hard (like durable)

fumar - to smoke (like fumes, or flames)

last - ultimo (like ultimate)

los angeles - the angels

nationalidad - nationality

posible - possible

quieres - do you want? (like the English word question)

soy - I am (shorter for my name is than the alternative)


Welsh Wafers, Wine & Chocolates



Flag of Wales

I associate Wales with the poems of Dylan Thomas, the Welsh male voice choirs, Castles, carved love spoons, and whisky and warm Welsh cakes, like little thick pancakes. But there's more.

Global warming has increased wine production in Southern England and Wales. I went to a wine tasting in Welwyn, where the speaker was Janet Wynne Evans. Evans is a popular Welsh name, along with Jones and Lloyd.

She was emplyed most of her working life by the Wine Society. She came to talk about 'A Life'In Wine'.

 . We got to taste eight wines from various countries, red, white, and orange.

Enter The Dragon

The first wine served was Welsh, Enter the Dragon (2022) a non vintage NV) wine from Pembrokeshire. 11% alcohol. 

The retail price was 36 pounds, so not exactly cheap. UK wines tend to be on the pricey side. When it comes to cheap, sweet wine with a hint of sparkle, it's hard to beat the popularity and price of Italian Prosecco in Tesco supermarkets. However, the Welsh wine has won awards.

Also you can visit their vineyard and book a wine tour and tasting. Go online to check them out.

If you wonder where you've heard the name Enter The Dragon before, it's the name of a Bruce Lee film, which has been around since 1973. 

The dragon, the red, dragon, features on the Welsh flag.

To go with Welsh wine we were served Welsh cracker.


The cheap wine which I preferred on first taste was A Cod Start (1984), onlu 8.95 from The Wine Society. My husband is a member and gets wines delivered free. That wine did not taste as good at the end of the evening. Why? Maybe it was a wine which went flat in the glass and did not last, or the other wines and food I ate. Anyway, it was good when I first tried it and the lady on my right liked it.

Useful Websites

https://www.velfreyvineyard.com/

thewinesociety.com

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Identify the last butterfly of summer

 I saw a butterfly in a back garden in London

I wanted to identify it.



I discovered a handy guide which I could download. It was intended to help doing the butterfly count in the UK.

I had missed doing that in August, the end of the British summer. The butterfly count is done in autumn, unlike the bird count whi is in spring.

Many of the butterflies have helpfully descriptive names, regarding their colour or pattern. For eample, regarding colour, white, the large white, blue, red - the red admiral. 

If you are near enough to your butterfly to see patterns, there's the tortoiseshell, the marbled, the six spots, and the peacock with eyes on the large edge of the wings.

I allowed myself the luxury of being sidetracked into reading the difference between birds and bees and butterflies when it comes to spreading plants. I know that insects like my roses. Lavender is another attraction. Butterflies like bright colours, like the butterflies themselves. Bees and wasps cannot see colours and therefor go for defferent plants.

Useful Websites

butterflycount.org

Thursday, September 25, 2025

NEW Year - Jewish, explained and illustrated

 We just had the two days of The Jewish New Year. The story is in Leviticus 23.24. The Feast of Trumpets. The ram's horn is blown in the synagogue on New Year;s Day. (This takes a lot of puff.) 

In my greetings card box I found old greeting cards for Jewish festivities. Nowadays people send greetings through animated cards and whatsapp but the old printed cards reminded me from the pictures that features of the festival include eating honey and apples.

Looking out of my window in London I see apples on trees in back gardens. The Jewish new year is a lunar new year like the Asian, Chinese,  and Muslim new years. So is Sukkot, the upcoming harvest festival celebrated in Christian churches in England as well as the assembly of Christian Cof E (Church of England) state school, which Americans call public schools. 

School Year

Jewish New Year starting in autumn may seem odd, until you reflect that school and universities follow the same traditional timing.

I remember from living in the USA that in the UK public schools are what Americans call private schools.  What the Americans call public schools, are what we in the UK used to call Council schools because the County council funds them from council tax. 

Jewish New Year's Eve Dinner

The evening before in Hebrew is called Erev. Easy to remember. Eve for evening like New Year's Eve on Dec 31st, and Erev.

I was invited to a Jewish New Year evening dinner on the evening before the second day of Rosh Hashana. Like Christmas eve, Jewish holidays start the night before. (Friday night is the start of the sabbath, varying in time according to the time of darkness when you can see three stars. No need to squint at the sky. A Jewish diary or calendar or newspaper tells you what time the sabbath or festival starts.

Two Night and Two Day Festivals in the Diaspora

The diaspora is the dispersal. (The Irish and others also use the word diaspora, and living beyond the pale, meaning boundary.)

In the UK two nights are celebrated. That is because of the time difference. The UK is not the same time as Jerusalem and Israel, so to be sure to cover every hour of the holiday, two days are celebrated. In Israel, they only celebrate for one day. Often the mother or grandmother or oldest sister cooks and invites the family for the first day. Sometimes a sister or daughter will hold the festive meal at her home on the second day, often using leftover food, and table decorations, candle sticks, flowers, table naplins, plates, borrowing whatever is needed, or pretty, or appropriate. Most religious people celebrate on two days. Non religious people, friends, distant relatives might be invited on the second day. I was invited on the secnd day (night before the second day which this week, this year, was Tuesday night.

Here are some pretty pictures for your entertainment. 

Flower display. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.

 Apple and head covering for a man. Paper napkin showing in gold foil the ram's horn. A plastic dipper for honey symbolising sweetness to spread on the apple. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.


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Chollah bread. Honey in bowl. With one large wooden honey dipper. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.



Honey in bowl. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.


Chocolate wrapped in foil. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.


Kosher chocolate

It doesn't have to be kosher chocolate. Ideally parve, chocolate designated as vegan, which contains neither milk nor meat, and can be served with either kind of meal.
A milk chocolate could be served with a milk meal containing no meat or meat products, not chicken, only fish. 

The real harvest festival is coming up soon, Sukkot, when households and synagogues build a sukkah, tempeorary hut with a view of the sky, (resembling the booths for guardians of the harvest, built out in Indian fields), decorated with hanging fruit 

Useful Dates

Yom Kippur 2025 Evening of October 1st to sundown on October 2nd.

Sukkot

Evening of Monday 6th October to 1th October in 2025.

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Simple easy to remember Spanish words


 

Spanish - English

ahora - now (nOw is the HOuR)

alto - high (like altitude)

animales - animals

ayer - yesterday (AYe - scottish for yes, YEsteRday)

carne - meat (like carnivore)

Dormitorio - bedroom

los dientes - teeth (like dentist and dental work and dentistry)

me - me

naranja - orange, add the n in front, an orange used to be a norange in English

viento - wind (like ventilation)

invierno - winter , like the French for winter,  hiver, change v to b and you hibernate, to get through the winter by sleeping in a duvet (spelled with a v)


English  Spanish

animals - animales

bedroom - dormitorio

high - alto

me -me

meat - carne

now - ahora

orange - naranja

teeth - los dientes

wind - viento

winter - invierno

yesterday - ayer

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Identifying Photo Locations & Dates From Clothes

 


Please label all your photos with the names of the people, the place, and the date. This is esily done at the time. When you retire and want to write your life story, or a family history fro your grandchildren, or a company hsitory, it is invaluable. 

You can use a combination of clothes and backgrounds to date a photo later. The above photo was taken at the Alumni meeting, 2025, Friday September 19th, indoors without windows so no clues as to time of day, but from recent memory and the saved event programme I know it was  before lunch.

I was able to label photos of my late parents with the location, because my father identified a prominent building such as a castle, confirmed by another photo of her outside a hotel which had its name prominently.  Another dozen photos of my mother wearing the same yellow suit with different blouses were from the same holiday, giving us the date and location, and as I knew my mother's birthday I could work out her age using the time of year, before or after her birthday, using the background foliage,  background foliage, and signs about events.

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Travel Light - Add Scarves Or Reversible Collars to make four long weekend outfits - by Angela Lansbury

 

Contrasting Colours

This lovely contrast of black enlivened by a green jacket was worn by the Vice Chancellor of the University of Sussex,  near beautiful Brighton in West Sussex on the coast south of London. England. I am specifying London,  England, because when I lived in the USA PR people from US cities later wrote to me using London in the address - and my post (mail) was delivered to the nearer London in Canada.

Contrasting Collars

Back to the point about the green and black and contrasting collars. I was thinking that if you or I wanted to buy or make a jacket or blouse with a contrasting collar, one could save sewing time with a detachable collar. 

Fastings For Detachable Collars

Velcro might scratch your neck or delicate fabrics underneath. So I would choose an alternative fastening, ideally small snaps. Snaps is the shorter American word, for fasteningsd which in the UK are called and sold as press studs.(Without available snaps, you would have to make do with buttons and buttonholes, or ribbons.

A Sewn-On Scarf Or Cravat

You could also make a detachable collar using a scarf. Or add a neatly pre-tied and sewn together cravat. Sew press studs underneath on one side for getting into the garment.

Multiple Outfits Made From Changing Collars

For a change of outfits on a weekend away, a blouse or jacket could have two colours of collar. With a second blouse with the changeable collar, you have four outfits. All black, all green, black with a green collar, green with a black collar.

Simple Scarf Addition

If this seams too much work, just take four different scarves to wear over a white blouse or black tee-shirt. A fancy pin will upgrade the outfit for evenings. Or a pretty scarf ring.

Identifying Photos From Clothes

That gives you four outfits, for the benefit of others, or to identify photos. All black was Friday. All green was Saturday. Black with the green collar was Sunday. Green with the black collar was Monday..

You. could alternatively wear each different outfit on successive weekends or successive summer or winter holidays.

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University or Sussex Alumni, official meeting photos and figures

 Alumnus is singu

Luch for the alumni in the University of Sussex Refectory.Official Event photo. The architectural style, which some call Brutalism, featured visible brickwork.


Angela Lansbury, left, chatting to a teacher of languages over the buffet. The buffet included meat balls, salads, hummus, chocolate desserts. Official event photo.


Angela Lansbury beside alumnus Trevor Sharot at the alumni lunch in the former refectory still used for meals but with an upgraded name. Official event photo.



Trevor, alumnus, and statistician, at question time, asks about the number of students nowadays, He has been given a roving microphone.  Official event photo.


lar, masculine. Alumni, is plural masculine. It means former pupils or members of a school or university. Meetups are for alumni. A picture of one person is of an alumnus. For women only it would be alumna, singular, and alumnae, plural..

Here are some official photos of the alumni meeting at the University of Sussex.

The uni is on a big tree-filled hillside campus of multiple brick buildings, brick and concrete. The buildings are housing the library, students' union building, and departments. And a multi-storey car park.

The distinctive circular building is the Meeting house. It is a non-denominational chapel.  

A supermarket or two, enable self-catering and special diets. The student and postgrad accommodation is sufficient to house all the students on site. But more students are overseas in China.

We saw these buildings on a walking tour after our alumni lunch for the decades of 1960s and 1970s. 

The total numbers at last year's count for the year which runs authum to autumn, 2023-2024 was about 17-19,000 students, according to which source you take.

Photos

The people attending the event were all sent about seventy photos taken by the official photographer. My husband selected the ones showing himself and me and forwarded them to me.  

Yarn bombers on post boxes in England

 Keep your eyes open as you walk or drive around London and cities in the UK.

You never know when you might see an amusing surprise.

 Post box topper in London, in 2025. Photo by Angela Lansbury.  Copyright. 

This little post box topper was in Stanmore, Middlesex, in north west London. I have several more pictures of postbox toppers in my other posts. Wikipedia has more from all over Britain.

This can be done using knitting or crochet. 

Useful Websites

Wikipedia has pictures of yarn bombing by country.

You tube has a video telling you ho to design a topping.

Wednesday, September 24, 2025

Marvellous Must See Meeting House, University of Sussex

 


Meeting House. University of Sussex. 2025. Photo by alumnus Trevor Sharot. Copyright.


Meeting House. University of Sussex. 2025. Photo by alumnus Trevor Sharot. Copyright.

The Meeting House, University of Sussex

This inter-denominational circular room is on the upper floor, first floor in the UK, one up from the ground floor. Americans would call it the second floor. (Singaporeans would name a unit with the floor first numerically, so this would be #02-..

The meeting house upper floor is a non-denominational meeting place. It is designed with the colour yellow behind the altar which is raised  up three steps at the far end of the second picture and further to the right on the upper picture.. 


Grade ! nad Grade II Listed Buildings

It is a grade 2 listed building. Most listed buildings are grade 2, which means they are of public interst  national heritage, and you have to apply to a heritage organization for any changes, upgrading, updating, for convenience, including safety, whatever. Grade 1 is a smaller number of extra special, often older larger, rarer important, well-known buildings, such as castles and cathedrals.

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Halloween Costumes in Supermarkets, such as Morrisons, UK - evoking memories of Halloween in Singapore and the USA

 For Halloween, Oct 31st. 2025, and every year. The French call it all saints. 

Traditonally a religous festival, saints in the Roman Catholic church, ghosts of everybody. Malevolent or benevolent ghosts. 

The Chinese have something similar, visiting graves once a year. That keeps the cemeteries tidy whilst descendants are alive. 

Nowadays Halloween is increasingly a commercial and dress up seasonal event.

Orange buckets, top shelf. Decorated drinking mugs, middle shelf. Skeleton costumes and trick or treat texts, lower shelf. Morrisons Supermartet, Hatch End, NW London, England, UK. Photo by Angela Lansbuy. Copyright. 


White skeletons are not my thing. I am more of an orange bucket person. (I also like orange pumpkins. Piled up at the entrances to supermarkets in London, England.)

Pumpkins in the USA
 I recall driving around the USA in the late 1900s, astonished at the orange stacks of pumpkins, and orange carved pumpkin decorations. I remember trying pumpkin pie, an orange topped flat triangle, a bit like a slide of cheesecake.

Pumpkin Soup In Singapore
In Singapore I had pumpkin soup for the fist time, when I went to a lunch in the American club. There members of the American Women's Association could pay for a seat at a lunch table. 

Not being American, (I am British) I could not join the American club and use the swimming pool. However, I could pay a lower fee to join the American Women's Association. This gave me the monthly magazine featuring activities organized by volunteers. I could join in activities such as playing bridge, and seasonal parties, such as Christmas and Halloween.

Now, in 2025, Halloween is a familiar feature in the UK.

Costumes, says the sign. 


Let's take a closer look.


Look for a huge choice at all prices before the seasonal dates. Now meetings on Zoom can be enlivened. Then look out for bargains in supermarkets after the magic dates.

Seasonal clothes you can only wear once a year. The rest of the year, store in cupboards in the bucket container to find them easily, and mark an Excel sheet or email yourself a note of where to find them. Or delegate an overhead cupboard in the spare room or second bedroom or garage for seasonal goods, New Year, Valentine's Day, Halloween, Christmas. Having lived overseas I now have two sets of everything. 

Trick Or Treat
Trick or treat is an activity for children, nowadays escaorted by a responsible adult. They knowk at the front doors of houses, and ask the householder, trick or treat? A generous and forewarned householder will have little bags of sweet treats, chocolates, jellies, whatever. You can buy big bags of these in the confectionary sections of big supermarkets and smaller conveneience stores.

When you run out of sweets, or don't want to give, you can ask for a trick. 

Suprprise Skeletons
In the old days, that would have been a surprise, maybe opening a coat to show a skeleton. 

Sinister Skeletons and Tricks
Later, as the custom spread, and some householders were inundated and annoyed, the tricks grew malicious, such as throwing bad eggs. 

Next year, or next hour, annoyed householders took revenge. They tried the trick. By putting inedible onions, unpleasant or dangerous objects in gift bags.

In Singapore when I as there it was illegal to knock on doors. You were not allowed to disturb people. You could not canvass to convert people to another religion. 

Nor collecting for charity - nor con people. distraction burglary. 

You could not disturb people attending to babies and invalids, shift workers trying to sleep, getting people out of their bath or shower, alarming the elderly and confused. 

Welcome Signs
So the next system was for parents of children at the American school to display signs printed by the school saying Trick and Treat welcome. The householders were prepared with treats and suprises, food or stickers, toys saved from cereal packets and McDonalds. 

Escorted Children
The children were accompanied by a parent who listed which donated treat goods came from which house. No child disappeared after being invited into the home of a suspect adult. 

Just fun all around for those willing and prepared for early evening fun. As the scouts say, be prepared.

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Monday, September 22, 2025

English's Fish Restaurant, Brighton, England

 English's Restaurant has been a  famuly owned and run restaurant serving fish in seaside Brighton for decades. More than fifty years ago my husband used to be taken by his mother down to Brighton for the weekend and they ate in English's.

 She was a chatty lady, a regular customer. she told us that one day the manager confided in her, "Don't tell anybody else, but my chefs and cooks are Chinese. They are all excellent cooks."  That was then, but a story which still amuses my family.

The restaurant has tables outside in the lanes, an area of narrow streets and historic buildings and lots of restaurants and outdoor tables, with colourful flowers everywhere, even in sunny September.

English

English's had two entrances, one which says Oyster bar. The everyday food of years ago is the modern world's rarity and delicacy. 

We ate in the restaurant on the left.

We started with an English sparkling whiite wine, to go with our white fish. I ordered plaice.


The diners at the next table had shellfish which I could not try because I am allergic to them.




Toilet and Table

The toilet is down about four stairs, but plenty to cling onto. 

We four sat in a secluded window seat, at an oblong table, with a nook for my handbag off the floor. The table was small enough for cosy, friendly chatting of the four of us friends.

We had attentive service from an agreeable young lady who, when she could not answer all our barrage of questions, said, 'I shall find out for you.'

We had been concerned by reports that the restaurant was going to be sold. However, replying to my husband's anxious follow-up email, the current owner assured us that he had decided to continue the business.

If you are easily frightened by prices, admire English's as you pass by, and save up for a special occasion. Brighton is full of eating places at all prices. English's was a quiet refuge. Outside, the streets were thronging with weird and wonderfully dressed people, strolling or dining, with long orange hair, or short pink hair, multi-colour hair, young and old, English and foreign, on a sunny Saturday.


Useful Websites and addresses


Fourth And Church restaurant, Brighton England


The restaurant symbol on the door, and bottles inside, at the glass front entrance of Fourth and Church Restaurant. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.

 Our Brighton friends chose this restaurant because it has a good wine vibe, with bottles on the walls behind our table. (We were stying at the Hotel du Vin.)

The restaurant is in Hove, which is indistinguishable from Brighton, being west along the coast. Although the address says Hove, the postcode has the inital and two letters of Brighton. Why does the restaurant location in its name have two streets, not just one? It's like New York. The street it is on is so long that you add the name of the nearest cross street, which tells you how far down to walk. The second street name also tells you the nearest street approach when driving there.

The restaurant name comes from the street names in the location. Fourth, not Forth. And Church.

The initials F and C for Fourth and Church are on the menu.  Opposite the front door is the church. Turn the menu sideways and the letters F and C are cleverly designed in the outline of a wine glass.

Photo by Angela Lansbuty. Copyright.


Look back at my picture of the front door. You see the symbol showing the wine glass. I noticed neither at the time, only when looking at the menu two days later.

The same symbol is on the back of their business card.

The toilets are down a few steps. I managed to do without an excursion. 

They brought up bread and oil to start. 

Wines

In the wall rack behind us. On the menu, no less than 9 sparkling white wines from England. That's the beneficial effect of global warming. England now has 300 or more vineyards, and more are in Wales going west in the UK.  

On the menu, also you can read about their long list of reds from warmer climes in Europe and around the world.

Starters & Main Courses

When you have a proper chef who changes the menu monthly weekly or even from one day to the next according to what is in season locally or readily available, it is hard to recommend. Our local friends said the menu had changed since their last visit. By the time you read this, the menu will have changed again.

Afters - Desserts & Cheese

Our small cosy group of four, two couples, opted for the cheese platter. Several unfamilar choices to choose from, plus crunchy tasty wafers and a sweet jelly/compote contrast.

They are on Facebook.

Website, Address of Fourth & Church Restaurant / Wines

www,fourthandchurch.co.uk

84 Church Road, Hove BN3 2EB

tel 01273 72470

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Hotel Du Vin Brighton, Sussex

The clocks show the time in other cities where you find a Hotel du Vin. Trevor Sharot chose this hotelfor the University of Sussex alumn meeting trip in September 2025.. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.

Bedroom on the ground floor of the Hotel Du Vin, Brighton, Sussex. Photo by Angela Lansbury.


Breakfast is expensive. No cheaper option.

 Bedrooms 


You get instant coffee and milk tiny capsules and a kettle in the room.

Bedrooms And Steps

They have two ground floor rooms. One had a steep step up to the shower and then a lip to step over. 

After jolting my hip stepping up, I rolled up a towel to riase the lower level.

Parking

A loeading bay is outside. Parking expensive nearby. Ceaper car park further away.

The other room has a flat shower, I was told.

Delightful decor throughout. 

Bedroom Decor





We had a colourful painting over the bed.

Restaurant

Pictures of a chef, food, and more



Lounge bar

Mock books, and real books on wine. Giant lily flower display.

 Prices

Prices can be high. You can book bedrooms through tripadvisor and booking.com

Check both. Usually booking rhough the hotel is cheaper, but we were offered a cheaper price by booking.com after booking through the hotel. 

Useful Websites

hotelduvin.com