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Saturday, July 25, 2026

Nandos - perfect for chicken and children

Four of us, three adults and a five year old child, went to Nandos for lunch. Nandos is a family favourite restaurant and a known quality. 




Chicken, corn and mashed potato and butter at Nandos, Stanmore. Photo by Angela Lansbury. copyright.

Parking in Stanmore

In Stanmore you can park outside if you are lucky. Other car parks are around the back, a public car park. 

Behind Sainsbury's we thought had public parking. It seemed to be mostly for customers. The criss- crossed markings on the spaces were reserved for local businesses, but only for Monday to Friday. 

Many Tables

Inside is a huge place with loads of tables. We had no need to book on a Saturday late lunch time July 25th 2026. We chose one of half a dozen alcoves with benches which suited mother and child, and granny with a big bag containing a pop-up reading book.

Children's Menu And Colouring

As soon as we arrived, we were given the family menus and children's menu. Also a jar of crayons and pages for children to colour. 

Pre-paying

The most active of our group went to order for us all from the counter. Pay in advance, like at the smaller fast food places with smaller menus. The advantage of pre-paying for the customer is that you can leave instantly when your car park reminder goes off on your phone. The driver can run off to collect the car, and then pull up outside to load up your passengers who don't need to walk back to the car park.


Friday, November 26, 2021

Jurong Point Shopping Mall

Huge Shopping Mall in North West Singapore, an area known for its malls. This one is busy and crowded.
Jurong Point shopping mall. Central indoor atrium. Photo by Trevor Sharot.

Seating for eating. Tall palm trees (real or fake?) stretching up to the light from the transparent ceiling. 

Two levels visible here. But add in the basements. As you can make out on the right, it gets quite crowded, even midweek.

In Singapore we have had eating out allowed only for two but now the numbers allowed have increased. But with the latest bad news, enjoy eating out whilst you can.

This mall is not the largest but has the greatest number of outlets. The mall has been extended twice. Once was when the MRT railway station was built alongside.
 
What can you find here? Starbucks. Courts.


Useful websites.


About the author

(About the Author of this blog, Author Angela Lansbury)

BIOGRAPHY

Angela Lansbury B A Hons ACG ALB PM5 EH5 DL5 VC5 
The Author of several books, including  Etiquette For Every Occasion. Wedding Speeches & Toasts. How to be the Best Man. Quick Quotations. Who Said What When.

Blogs travelwithangelalansbury.blogspot.com

dressofthedayangela.blogspot.com

translateforfun.blogspot.com

Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters Speakers Club Vice President Public Relations (VPPR), Previous President

Join BHA 1st Wednesday 7pm and 3rd Saturday 2 pm Singapore time 

Vice President Public Relations (VP PR) of Tampines Changkat Advanced;

Secretary of weekly online Singapore International Dynamic Toastmasters Speakers’ Club;

Member and past president of Harrovians toastmasters club, UK; Past member of HOD Toastmasters, London. Past member in Singapore of: Toastmasters Club of Singapore (TCS); Tiarel; and Senja Cashew.

More details from Toastmasters International find a club.

Regular attendee at annual Swanwick Writers’ School, England.

Regular attendee at annual Writers’ Holiday, Wales.

Contributor to poetry readings, and after tea courses on: Speaking On Radio To Promote Books; and Plots And Character.

Winner of many club and area speaking contests in the UK and Singapore.

Language advisor to Empire Toastmasters club in Indonesia.

Language and speech workshops in Singapore.

Speaker on radio and TV in England, Scotland, the USA, and Australia.

Compiler of a school course on public speaking for teachers to prepare pupils for school open days with attending ceremonies before government ministers, Singapore.

Former member of Harrow Writers’ Circle, London, and two writing groups in Singapore.

Angela is on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Pinterest, Twitter. She would be delighted to link up with new friends.

I  also have a blog on comic poems.

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Sunday, September 5, 2021

Best and Worst of Costa In Watford - Coffee and Bakewell Tart

The best and worst in one picture. The best is Costa's excellent coffee. The worst was the tart, overloaded icing, too much sugar, and not enough protein. Photo by Angela Lansbury.
If you are looking for a gift, a metal straw. Photo by Angela Lansbury.

 Why visit Costa under the arches by B & Q in Watford? Why not? A good place to stop if it's tea time.

The Best - My Most Favourite

The Seating

Wide choice, arm chairs, stools, banquettes. My husband chose to sit by a bright window. You could also sit outdoors.

The Coffee with cream.

My husband says Costa is his favourite coffee bar chain. He is a coffee connoisseur. When travelling, since Covid-19, when returning to Singapore and quarantine, we pack a suitcase to leave behind with friends to be sent on to our hotel by courier, and in it we take our own coffee maker.

We order capsules from Nespresso and try their multi-packs of many flavours, the strongest and mildest. He is a frequent visitor Costa, and his second choice is Starbucks and failing these any other coffee bar. 

Before leaving, I looked at what the Watford coffee bar was selling. I noticed the metal straws.

The Worst - My Least Favourite

The Bakewell Tart

Note to self. Never order this again. 

Too much icing. 

Jam with no flavour. 

No almond flavour at all. 

We were considering a chocolate dessert but I thought Bakewell tart, which normally contains nuts is better. i was wrong. No noticeable nuts in sight. If you want a delicious Bakewell with almonds and coconut, try the wrapped biscuits in the brand Mrs Crimble.

Costa had some chocolate offerings, and cheesecake, and lemon dessert. I shall try those next time.

What to order

The Coffee

Our favourite is double espressoj can panne. (Double espresso with cream.)

Covidi precautions provided

Hand sanitiser at the entrance.

Toilets?

At the side of Costa, inside. Not enough. With one person ahead of me in the queue, I decided to wait until I got home.

Useful Websites

Costa

https://www.watfordobserver.co.uk/news/18422704.costa-drive-thru-watford-back-open/

https://www.costa.co.uk/locations/store-locator

Wednesday, September 11, 2019

How To Prepare For Weddings and Jewish Weddings


A few more thoughts on weddings, and Jewish weddings.
Apart from the usual drsses of the bride and mother of the bride and groom, and the flowers at the venue, and the wedding canopy, one item to admire is the bride's ketubah or marriage document.

The writing looks like Hebrew. It is written not in Hebrew but in Aramaic, which was the language of the poeple at the time of Jesus, pre-dating modern Hebrew and modern Arabic.


Ketubah from Yale University, USA. I found this picture in Wikipedia under Jewish weddings. The photo is in the public domain.

WEDDING LIST?
Will you have a wedding list or provide your joint bank account details?

VIDEO
Will you have a video and record the speeches and a few words from both sets of parents? 

MUSICAL RECORD
Will you video a moment or two of singing or music playing by any talented family members? (Years later it might be your only video of them playing.)

GRACE
Do we need to know how to sing grace before and after meals with the rabbi. Which tune?

TABOOS AND OBLIGATIONS?
Any Orthodox or other rules we should know about? Groom's family sit on left? Women sit separately, upstairs, behind barrier? Such as not shaking hands with the rabbi? Not eating before grace said by rabbi. Nor interrupting the bride reading her prayers before the ceremony?

Signing by a rabbi.
Photo by Meshulam in Wikipedia under Jewish Weddings.

Signing
Signing as witness with our Hebrew names? Not signing as witness because we are closely related?

Women and Dancing
Not dancing before the couple start the dance? Women not entering area reserved for men?

Timing
Give all guests directions from the wedding ceremony to the reception. You might find that a car leaves and a person gets left behind because they went to the toilet or could not find the designated car in the car park or could not find the person with the directions or did not hear the announcement of the venue.

If you have the reception at the same venue, five minutes is not enough time to allow people to proceed from the wedding ceremony to dinner.

Firstly, the ceremony could run late. Secondly people disappear to the toilet or stop to chat, stop to read noticeboards, make phone calls - even go out to the street to smoke a cigarette, get lost, one hundered people wait in line to read the seating plan and cross the room looking for their table, stopping to chat on the way.

Thirdly, a queue (Americans say line-up) to allow the Toastmasters to get announcement of each guest enterting the room and/or shaking hands with the bride and groom. Some will only stop half a minute to whispering congratulations. But a few will hand over envelopes or ask where to leave a gift, explain how they are related, add other queries, say why their spouse cannot atend or will be late, and tell their life story.

STANDING AND SEATING
Where do I stand or sit in the ceremony? Do the mothers of the couple escort the bride in? Is there a ceremony rehearsal or floor plan?  Do I have to say or read anything in Hebrew at any time? If so bring it to me so I can practise it.

Tips
Location and parking
We looked up the synagogue on google to see if we could work out the route and whether parking was available. That reminded us to ask about parking. On the internet I've seen wedding cars as well as funeral cars getting parking tickets, so it's as well to know the situation in advance and plan getting permission to park.

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Angela Lansbury
Author and travel writer.

Wednesday, April 3, 2019

What Went Wrong At Weddings Or Dinners What you can do to avoid trouble

Safeguard Honeymoon Money
First, don't embezzle the honeymoon money. 

Safety On Stag Nights
Second, don't take the groom on a stag night in which everybody is so drunk that they have black eyes and don't enjoy the wedding. On one or two stag nights the groom or best man has been badly injured or even gone, missing, immediately or much later found drowned. Sometimes, the bride sees the photo of the groom kissing the near naked stripper and cancels the wedding.

The wedding ceremony - money 
In France at the church a cup or box is passed around collecting money. This is not for the bride and groom but for the poor. So do not put into the box the gift for the bride and groom because they will not receive it!

If the minister is not paid but received a 'donation', the best man has to ensure the correct money is in an envelope with the minister's name, and must work out when to discreetly hand it over.

1 Forget to reply to the wedding RSVP in the UK
Why is this wrong? The wedding dinner is costing the bride or groom or their families easily 50 or 100 pounds sterling per seated guest just for the meal. If five couples don't turn up, that is 500 hundred pounds or more spent unnecessarily, wasted food, looks like their friends don't love them, their friends who were left off the list to make room for you will be annoyed, and when you fail to send a gift and confess, "Oops I forgot!", your friendship may sour.
Remember the RSVP!

Ushers should know the seating order. Family at the front. Bride's family on one side, groom's family on the other side.

If you mislay the wedding invitation and reply, you might get lost between the wedding ceremony venue and the reception venue and miss the dinner.
Don't follow other guests.
One group followed another car and ended up outside the local hospital. They had followed a doctor who was on call.

2 Deliver gifts to the bride's home in advance. Gifts at hotel go missing. 
Traditionally wedding gifts are not delivered at the wedding. Only close family would give money.
At a wedding I attended, my gift and all the others were stolen from the family\s hotel boot in the hotel car park.

3 The best man should make sure the groom reaches the wedding venue. If there is a delay or cancellation, he should tell the bride and venue.
I was supposed to be a witness at a wedding on a cruise ship. The groom did not turn up. the ship's staff called all the local hospitals. The groom had evidently done a runner. 
Unfortunately, his parents were already on board, on the one week cruise, sharing a dinner table with the bride's parents. The cruise ship said they could not move the table seating,because all the other tables were families and friends who would not wish to be separated. I don't suppose anybody else wanted to be forced to try to be jolly sharing a table for a week with the jilted bride.

2 At dinner, don't talk with your hands. Even if you are Italian.
Why not?
a) You look like a foreigner.
b) You are likely to knock the red wine over the bride's white dress. Would that make you popular?
The groom will assume:
You made a mistake. You are an idiot.
You did it deliberately. It might start a fight.

3 Do not not get drunk and do not start a fight.
Why? The hotel will charge a lot of money.
The wedding party giving speeches next door will not be pleased about the noise.
(I heard about this from a hotelier in the UK.)
The groom will spend the night in jail.
The bride will never forgive you. (Her mother will say she was right about you all along.)

Hire a wedding car - and have a backup.
In Australia I was sent videos of out-takes by a wedding video photographer.
In one video, the best man was distracted and left off the handbrake. His car rolled downhill into the car of the bride's father. In addition to the damage, they needed two cars at short notice to get to the wedding.
In another video, the best man's group thought it was funny to cover all the groom's car windows with  several inches of shaving foam. He could not see to drive to the airport. He was in a hired suit. I have never seen anybody look so angry.

Don't deliver items to the honeymoon suite or make an apple pie bed nor allow anybody else to do so.
The best man or so called friends so often wreck the room that many hotels will not allow anybody else in. Because the bride and groom will sue the hotel for running the wedding and the hotel in turn will sue the guests or bride and groom for damage to the room.

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Author of
Wedding Speeches & Toasts
Etiquette for every occasion.

Sunday, November 25, 2018

Architects please copy colours on seats

When Waterloo Centre was built on Waterloo Street in Singapore the coloured floors and matching seats must have looked amazing. They still do if you look closely and ignore the dust and dirt and disintegration of time. To judge by the notices, this complex has the threat or promise of refurbishment or redevelopment. 

I hope they will preserve the coloured marble floors and seats. 

I prefer seats with backs. I find wood more friendly than hard, unshaped flat seating. No backs on chairs and benches means people tend to slump and get round-shouldered. Glance around any public area with backless seats and you will see what I mean. Slumping can cause neck and neck pain. 

But I can understand that this simple design is less prone to wear and tear than painted or varnished surfaces. 

I love the colours. What are the colours, Cream and green and rusty, orangey red.
Colourful seating in Singapore. Photo by Angela Lansbury. Copyright.

Spelling note. The spelling colour is British. Color is American.

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Sunday, July 16, 2017

Welsh Train Signs Translated

Problem
I can see bilingual signs in Welsh and English. That would be a really quick way to learn a few Welsh words whilst I am hanging around on a station, changing trains, or going on holiday or coming home. I can see how the whole sentence translates. But that is hard to remember. What do the individual words mean?

Answers

Photos by Angela Lansbury. Copyright. I cropped this bilingual sign from a larger photo.


You can probably work out some of the words just by looking at the translation and the similar consonants and vowels.

Welsh - English
dim - no
d r y s a u - doors
p o l i s i - policy (the letters p o l i start both words)
s e d d i - seating (both words start with s and e. T and D sound similar.)
t r e n - train (the letters t r and n are the same in both words)
y - the
y s m y g u - smoking (drop the y and you can read s and m)

English - Welsh
doors - d r y s a u (d and r are common to both words)
no - dim 
policy - p o l i s i
seating - s e d d i
smoking - y s m y g u
the - y
train - t r e n 

Travel tips
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Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Teacher of English and languages. I have many other posts travelling and languages in Wales, Europe, Asia, the Americas and worldwide. Please follow, bookmark and share your favourite posts.



Monday, September 12, 2016

What I've Learned About Travelling To Contests, Conferences And Presentations


LION DANCE

The drumming of the lion dance and twirling orange figures barred the way up the steps to the centre where I was attending a meeting, threatening to make me late. But never mind, I had an excuse for being late. If I missed my meeting and happy memories of the meeting, I had photographs of a lion dance instead. My mobile phone camera was handy in my pocket and I pulled it out and stopped, delighted.

Moral: Always arrive early at a busy venue or multi-performance day. Even if you are on time, crowds, performances in the central area or lobby or steps, or other events on a day of celebration may delay your arrival.

HUGE TABLE - HARD OF HEARING
A few minutes later I was to an open house for eight Toastmasters International Speakers' Clubs, celebrating the grand opening of Cairnhill Community Centre in the Centre of Singapore. I rushed through the door to the meeting room and took the nearest empty seat, at the end of the long table, far away from the whiteboard and lectern. I saw a free seat right next to the speaker, but suspected, rightly, that the seat was for the VIP of the event, and anybody who took that seat would have the indignity of being moved.

Moral; Arrive early to get a good seat. Check where the speaker will be standing.If you are organising, mark chairs which will be saved, both out of respect for the VIP and to save visitors from the embarrassment of being moved.

I watched as the seat was taken by another visitor. She had to move when the VIP arrived.

I was right in thinking that I was too far from the speaker to hear well. I was right. The first speaker spoke quietly. Parts of her speech were even quieter, because she looked down or dropped her voice at the ends of sentences.

Moral: If you are organising at a grand event, bring or request microphones. You may have a nervous speaker, a huge room, a speaker not able to project their voice to fill a large room, a speaker reading from notes, or background noise.

SWTICHING SEATS
I managed to get the general gist of the speech. I lost the flow of the speech as I started eyeing second row seats around the walls and wondering if I could sneak up to a nearer seat between speakers.

INTERRUPTIONS
Toastmasters International arranges everything to help nervous speakers. During contests, the doors are kept closed during a speech, only opened between speeches. Why?
A) To prevent the frequent possibility of interruptions from latecomers, plus strangers in the building stepping in, asking what the event is, demanding directions to another event, causing general disturbance to the speaker, the speech evaluators or contest judges and the audience.
b) To prevent the rare possibility of a rival speaker creating a deliberate interruption to try to distract and unnerve the speaker.

Unfortunately, the result is that speakers are not trained to deal with interruptions. Noises and sights outside and people entering occur constantly in real life.

WINDOWLESS VENUES
I noticed that the conference room where we were meeting had not shades to block out the distractions from the delightful picture window views of the entrance outside. At most Toastmasters speaking events I am disappointed when we are placed in claustrophobic windowless rooms behind partitions. Windowless venues look as if they would be deadly in a fire. I am often distracted from the opening speech by checking the quickest way out.

However, on this occasion, at this venue (Cairnhill Community Centre) I found sights and sounds outside were a distraction and window shades would have been welcome on the side overlooking public areas, since the room had plenty of windows on the other side over the road and trees which let in light without admitting noise. The exit door is obvious.

FIRE ESCAPE
Regarding exits and toilets, fortunately, most Toastmasters meetings start with the announcement of the direction of the fire escape and toilets.

NOISE
The lion dance began again outside, along with the noise of crowds watching. Latecomers entered and as the door of the room opened the distraction and volume of the noise increased. The door was self closing slowly so even after the newcomer found a seat, the noise continued several seconds.

SOUNDPROOFING
We were distracted by the noise of the lion dance. Then shouts of families and children outside. Then a disco band from below.
Moral: Architects should design conference rooms with soundproofing, not picture window double doors with gaps between the coors and under them letting in distracting sound.
If speaking events take place when noisy events are alongside or elsewhere int he building, microphones should be provided for speakers. The organisers should be advised by the building management that microphones will be provided. If not, the speaking group should be advised to bring their own microphones, amplifiers and adapters, with a technician to help on hand to prevent feedback, the booming noise when the microphone is placed too near the amplifier.

The noise grew to a crescendo. The speaker bravely, or foolishly, ignored the noise. I could see her lips moving.

Finally, somebody stepped forward and asked the speaker to stop. Simultaneously, several dozen community centre helpers in red tee-shirts crowded into the back of the room, accompanying a VIP, to be shows what we were doing.

The speaker started again. I now knew the gist of the speech, so I was able to follow the detail more easily by watching the face of the speaker and lip-reading.

Lip-reading
I am not trained in lip reading. By lip-reading, I just mean watching to help me follow and guess, the way one does when you are driving and let another car go first and people in a pausing then passing car mouth words such as 'thank you'. It's a bit like predictive text. You hear a bit and see a bit and fill in the missing parts with a guess.

Moving Chairs
Lip-reading is only possible if you can see the speaker. If you are short, you have to ensure that you sit where you can see the speaker. If necessary, change chairs. If you can't change chairs, move your chair. If I arrive early, I sometimes move several chairs in a row to make the people in my row look between the heads of these in the row ahead.

Moving the Speaker
I was evaluating a speech by a speaker who turned out to be from Slovakia. I was delighted that he not a loud voice, amplified by deep breathing to project.He not only had a vigorous, projecting voice. He also started by walking up and down the room, enabling those at the far and to hear, as well as holding our attention.

I demonstrated what he had done, walking forward, around both sides of the table, to get attention and be heard, as I praised his action, to the amusement of the audience.

Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker.

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Travelling, shopping, money from Santander, banks and seats

While you are shopping in London, for example, in Harrow on the Hill (Met line or Metropolitan line) or Brent Cross Shopping Center (lots of buses go there) you can pay into Santander bank or get money out. I like branches of banks which have chairs. Hatch End, (Euston to Watford railway line, H12 and H14 buses) has a branch of Natwest with a car park behind, and inside are a couple of seats if you are waiting fro somebody else standing in line. (Unfortunately the seats are at the back which is fine if you are waiting to go into the room at the back for a private discussion, no good if you are waiting for the 'till windows just to pay money in or take it out.)
     Santander in Hatch End is more seat-friendly. They have two seats if you are waiting for the two windows. When you get to the windows, a seat for you to sit and talk.
    Not everybody wants to sit down. Some customers prefer to stand or hop from foot to foot. They often offer a seat to you.
    I know I spend too much time sitting down, according to the latest health surveys. But I like the choice. I have newspapers to read, lists to make. I can sit and sort the letters I need for the transaction.
   For me the Santander branch with seating is customer friendly. If I have to decide which of the two branches to visit, I choose the one with the seats.
   I also feel safer in a place with seating. Fewer people coming and going. It's not that I really expect a pickpocket or bank robber. (Though we've had a few.) But if you are sensibly alert to your surroundings, both by instinct and a matter of policy, your attention is distracted by movement around you.
   I often glance through the windows of a branch of a building society or shop. If I see a seat I am more likely to go inside.
   In a suburban shopping centre near where you live, you tend to do your banking. But on a long trip, you can often catch up on your banking by going into another branch. You just need to be sure to memorise your pin number.
   In addition to the conscious decision, there is the programming of your mind by stored information you don't have time to think through consciously. Subconsciously you - or I - have registered, that branch with seats when I'm tired after shopping, is a good place for me to go.
   If you feel guilty about shopping and spending money instead of saving it, you can get something sensible done, like checking your accounts, or paying in a cheque.
   In Singapore some car hire companies have a water dispenser near the seating. I'm sure that waiting is less arduous if you have seats, water, and newspapers. Many car show rooms in the UK have seats and newspapers.
   So, congratulations to the branches of banks and building societies which provide seats.