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Wednesday, February 10, 2021

What is the Difference Between Chinese New Year and Lunar New Year?

 


Spring Festival (Chinese characters).svg
"Chinese New Year" in Traditional (top) and Simplified (bottom) Chinese characters
Traditional Chinese春節
Simplified Chinese春节
Literal meaning"Spring Festival"
"Agricultural Calendar New Year"
Traditional Chinese農曆新年
Simplified Chinese农历新年
"Chinese New Year"
Traditional Chinese中國新年
Simplified Chinese中国新年

CNY stands for Chinese New Year. it is celebrated in Taiwan and Singapore. In mainland china it is called Spring Festival.

LNY is used in Korea. The initials stand for Lunar New Year. Also used by the Vietnamese.

Korea

The Koreans also give gifts of money. 

They wear traditional costume called hanbok.



You might want to check out lunar new year and lunisolar New Year. Lunisolar follows both the sun (solar) and moon (luni) so it stays in the same season.

The Indians also follow New Year.

Other New Year Festivals

Jewish New year falls in the autumn.

Muslim New Year is purely solar and  gradually changes season.

Useful Websites

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lunar_New_Year

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Korean_New_Year


About the Author

Angela Lansbury teacher of English (advanced and English as a Second Language or English as a Foreign Language, French and other languages, aspiring polyglot.

Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Member of many toastmasters  speaker training clubs and speaking contest judge.


Angela Lansbury, the author of 20 books including Wedding Speeches & Toasts, and Quick Quotations, has lived in the USA, Spain and Singapore. 
She  has several blogs and writes daily on at least two of the following:
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Sunday, January 31, 2021

Circle of Money fountain in Aachen, Germany

 

Circle of Money Fountain in Aachen Germany, near Cologne and the borders with Belgium and the Netherlands. Each character or group shows different attitudes to money.

The wiki caption says:

The fountain Circle of Money (Kreislauf des Geldes) in Aachen, Germany. The figurines show different persons dealing with money, while the rotating water symbolizes the circle of money. Sculptured by Karl-Henning Seemann, sponsored by the Sparkasse Aachen.

Photo by User:Ahoerstemeier

An amusing picture. Also a great illustration for a talk or workshop or speech about money.

About the Author

Angela Lansbury is teacher of English. (Advanced English and English as a Second Language or English as a Foreign Language, French and other languages, an aspiring polyglot.)

Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Member of many toastmasters  speaker training clubs, and speaking contest judge.

Angela Lansbury, the author of 20 books including Wedding Speeches & Toasts, and Quick Quotations, has lived in the USA, Spain and Singapore. 
She  has several blogs and writes daily on at least two of the following:
 Please share links to your favourite posts.

Sunday, August 2, 2020

What do Chinese names mean?


Flag of Singapore

Flag of Japan

Chinese names appear in China, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Macau, and Singapore.

Vietnamese flag

 Chinese names have derivatives in Vietnam.   

The same sign language is used in Japan. 

You will also encounter these names in Chinese quarters and restaurants all over the world.
In addition you may see them in businesses online.
I shall list them alphabetically in English.

Kim/Jin means gold or money.

Li (李).svg
The Chinese character for Li
PronunciationLǐ (Mandarin)
Lei5 (Cantonese)
Language(s)Chinese
Origin
Language(s)Old Chinese
MeaningPlum, plum tree
Other names
Variant form(s)Lee, Lei, Lie
Derivative(s)Lee, Ri, Yi, Rhee, Rhie, Reeh (Korean)
Singapore's Lee Kuan Yew, easier to remember if you start with the family name Lee. 

China has a Li River. Easiest to remember if you recall:
Chinese 理 (lǐ) meaning "reason, logic", 
立 (lì) meaning "stand, establish", 
黎 (lí) meaning "black, dawn", 
力 (lì) meaning "power, capability, influence" (which is usually only masculine) or
丽 (lì) meaning "beautiful" (usually only feminine).

So, if you are asking a calligrapher to write your name in Chinese, don't be surprised if another person writes your name differently.

Lim means forest.
You might also come across people named Lam or Lum.

The first name Shan is mountain. Shan Shan is plural, mountains.

Popular Family Names
 The top three—Wang (), Li (), and Zhang ()—cover more than 20% of the population.

Useful Website
Facebook polyglot page

About the Author
Angela Lansbury speaks and teaches English and French and public speaking and aspires to be a polyglot (speaker of many languages.)
Member of 5 Toastmasters International speakers clubs. Join BHA as a guest. Wed Aug 5th 7 pm Singapore time. 

Sunday, July 26, 2020

How To Secure Pockets When Travelling


Photo by Michael Sheehan in Wikipedia.

The ideal travelling jacket has outside pockets for quick access to unimportant or not valuable items such as handkerchieves and combs, but secure inner pockets for money and credit cards and identity cards or passports.

If you don't have the time or money, some inexpensive items can be bought new or second hand. Search for photographer's jacket, fishing jacket, travelling jacket and pockets. Other words such as gilet may bring up more results. I check Amazon, Ebay, Pick pocet proof clothing.

You can also find belts with pockets at camping shops and ski and outdoor wear shops.

If the clothes you order on line have pockets which are not secure, or you have clothes which you love, but want to add security, here are some options.

1 Wear a belt with a zip compartment under your jacket.

2 Make a belt with a zip. Cut a wide hem off a long dress or old coat or old coat or jacket lining.  fold it horizontally and before seaming it up, add a zip in the middle.

 3 Secure all the pockets on all garments you intend to wear whilst travlling and clothes you are packing to wear at the destination.





When buying bags and tote bags, look for zips and press studs or Velcro (touch and loop closure).

Inserting a zip is easy. Decide where you want the pull part to be and pin or safety pin that in place. Decide if you want the zip visible or hidden half an inch inside. Sew down both sides of the zip. Secure the end by sewing across.

No time? No Zip?

Use a small zipped fabric toiletry bag. One you already own or buy a cheap zipped bag. Sew it inside a tote bag. Remove the inner pockets from a garment you were throwing away and keep them in a sewing box and add them to your travel garments.

Do you have a garment with false zips, ones which actually work but have no pockets behind them? Add a pocket behind. The simplest pocket is just a square sewn up on three sides.

Useful Websites
amazon
ebay
pickpocketproof clothing
https://www.facebook.com/ClothingArts
https://www.clothingarts.com/

About the author
Angela Lansbury is a travel writer and photographer.

Wednesday, January 22, 2020

What Is Inside Chinese Red Packets?



Red packets. Singapore. 2020. Photo by Angela Lansbury.


Did you think it was always paper note money? I did. People queue up (Americans say line up) to get crisp new note money to go inside red packets.

But not always note money. I was wrong.

Red packets can contain other symbolic lucky gifts. For example rice, symbolic of plentiful food.

Or small coins, symbolic of wealth. this works well for children. so long as the coins are not five to tots under three years old who might swallow the money.

Ideally, however, coins should be gold (or chocolates covered in gold foil) symbolising money.

How do you know what is inside a sealed red packet? Feel it. Feel the shape and weight.

You are not supposed to open it in the presence of the giver.

About the Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer. I have several posts on Singapore and other destinations.
https://travelwithangelalansbury.blogspot.com/2020/01/collect-red-packets-for-chinese-new-year.html
Please share links to your favourite posts.

Wednesday, April 3, 2019

What Went Wrong At Weddings Or Dinners What you can do to avoid trouble

Safeguard Honeymoon Money
First, don't embezzle the honeymoon money. 

Safety On Stag Nights
Second, don't take the groom on a stag night in which everybody is so drunk that they have black eyes and don't enjoy the wedding. On one or two stag nights the groom or best man has been badly injured or even gone, missing, immediately or much later found drowned. Sometimes, the bride sees the photo of the groom kissing the near naked stripper and cancels the wedding.

The wedding ceremony - money 
In France at the church a cup or box is passed around collecting money. This is not for the bride and groom but for the poor. So do not put into the box the gift for the bride and groom because they will not receive it!

If the minister is not paid but received a 'donation', the best man has to ensure the correct money is in an envelope with the minister's name, and must work out when to discreetly hand it over.

1 Forget to reply to the wedding RSVP in the UK
Why is this wrong? The wedding dinner is costing the bride or groom or their families easily 50 or 100 pounds sterling per seated guest just for the meal. If five couples don't turn up, that is 500 hundred pounds or more spent unnecessarily, wasted food, looks like their friends don't love them, their friends who were left off the list to make room for you will be annoyed, and when you fail to send a gift and confess, "Oops I forgot!", your friendship may sour.
Remember the RSVP!

Ushers should know the seating order. Family at the front. Bride's family on one side, groom's family on the other side.

If you mislay the wedding invitation and reply, you might get lost between the wedding ceremony venue and the reception venue and miss the dinner.
Don't follow other guests.
One group followed another car and ended up outside the local hospital. They had followed a doctor who was on call.

2 Deliver gifts to the bride's home in advance. Gifts at hotel go missing. 
Traditionally wedding gifts are not delivered at the wedding. Only close family would give money.
At a wedding I attended, my gift and all the others were stolen from the family\s hotel boot in the hotel car park.

3 The best man should make sure the groom reaches the wedding venue. If there is a delay or cancellation, he should tell the bride and venue.
I was supposed to be a witness at a wedding on a cruise ship. The groom did not turn up. the ship's staff called all the local hospitals. The groom had evidently done a runner. 
Unfortunately, his parents were already on board, on the one week cruise, sharing a dinner table with the bride's parents. The cruise ship said they could not move the table seating,because all the other tables were families and friends who would not wish to be separated. I don't suppose anybody else wanted to be forced to try to be jolly sharing a table for a week with the jilted bride.

2 At dinner, don't talk with your hands. Even if you are Italian.
Why not?
a) You look like a foreigner.
b) You are likely to knock the red wine over the bride's white dress. Would that make you popular?
The groom will assume:
You made a mistake. You are an idiot.
You did it deliberately. It might start a fight.

3 Do not not get drunk and do not start a fight.
Why? The hotel will charge a lot of money.
The wedding party giving speeches next door will not be pleased about the noise.
(I heard about this from a hotelier in the UK.)
The groom will spend the night in jail.
The bride will never forgive you. (Her mother will say she was right about you all along.)

Hire a wedding car - and have a backup.
In Australia I was sent videos of out-takes by a wedding video photographer.
In one video, the best man was distracted and left off the handbrake. His car rolled downhill into the car of the bride's father. In addition to the damage, they needed two cars at short notice to get to the wedding.
In another video, the best man's group thought it was funny to cover all the groom's car windows with  several inches of shaving foam. He could not see to drive to the airport. He was in a hired suit. I have never seen anybody look so angry.

Don't deliver items to the honeymoon suite or make an apple pie bed nor allow anybody else to do so.
The best man or so called friends so often wreck the room that many hotels will not allow anybody else in. Because the bride and groom will sue the hotel for running the wedding and the hotel in turn will sue the guests or bride and groom for damage to the room.

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Author of
Wedding Speeches & Toasts
Etiquette for every occasion.

Thursday, August 2, 2018

Civilization And Survival: Villages, Hikers,Travellers - what is civilisation? Which do you prefer, city or country?

The word civilisation comes from the word for city. But is city life more civilised? People in the city go to the coutnryside to de-stress on holiday. But people living in the countryside flock to the cities looking for work and excitement. Are the cities more civilised?

Problems
Cities are polluted. Crowded. We go to remote places to escape. How long can we stay in remote places without the help of civilisation?
You can see from the poor quality of this blown up photo that it was taken from the house, quite some distance away. I wasn't sure this garden fox was friendly. He was watching me. I was watching him.

1 HIKES
I go on hikes. Holidays in the coutnry or climbing require weeks of preparation and shopping trips to camping supply shops. Waterproof clothes. Sleeping bags. Tents. Borrowing items and recelining loaned items. Protective glasses. Water bottles. GPS. Repairs to watches.

Hikes uphill or downhill are great for the first half hour. Sometimes as long as four hours.

As soon as you get to a mountaintop, you sit down.

In Madeira, after hiking down to the waterfall, several people caught the minibus back uphill.

I love the scenery. But could I stay there indefinitely, like the tramp who wrote, 'What is life if, full of care, you have no time to stand and stare?'


Couple seated on the city's bench, admiring the view of the countryside. Photo by Angela Lansbury.

You can stand and stare for an hour or two. Then you get hungry and thirsty.

1b FOOD
Eat from nature. Fine in summer if you have fruit trees nearby. My garden has one good apple tree. But half the apples contain worms.  The other one has tasteless woody apples. Maybe that's because it's too early in the year. You have to spend a lot of time picking and cooking. If you just want a good, eating apple, pop down to the supermarket.

Garden food, a nice extra. But you'd have a hard time trying to live on it exclusively all year.

Here's aloe vera, grown on a balcony in Singapore. Tastes terrible. No flavour. Slimy. A packaged aloe vera drink from the supermarket was very pleasant.

In Singapore we are surrounded by coconut trees - which somebody has planted in neat rows. I never climb trees to get coconuts. When was the last time you climbed a tree to get a coconut? Or tried to open one without a manufactured knife? 

At a condo in Singapore, nimble lads were hired to cull the coconuts (before the coconuts fell on the heads of sunbathers or gardeners and killed somebody). The lads had either ladders or climbing shoes and ropes, large bags to collect the coconuts. They had shop-bought machetes to cut off leaves which got in the way, or were old and likely to fall. The machetes also cut the tops off coconuts if you wanted to eat or drink.

1c TOILETS
 I am very glad to get back to civilization. Toilets. Water for washing hands. After four days hiking rhough mountains with no toilets, even a squat toilet is a luxury. A door to close for privacy. A bin where you can chuck tissues. If you are lucky, a ledge where you can keep your bag off the dirty ground.

Insects kept away. Insect repellent you can buy. Sandwiches to buy.

After a hiking trek, even a marathon, people come back with broken toe-nails, bruises, insect bites.

2 WWII
In WWII people on the run from the Nazis hid out in the woods in Belarus. They survived by raiding nearby villages for vital stuff such as food and medicines. When the war ended, they did not choose to stay in the woods making their own shoes and clothes and huts. They went straight back to civilisation, cities.

3 EQUIPMENT For Climbing
My friends and family go on hikes and treks. They depend on items brought from civilzation. Ropes. Sleeping bags. GPS. Bottled water. Maps. Signposts. Rescue helicopters.

4 WORK PAYS
All my millionaire friends and acquaintances are incredibly hard-working. They get up at 5 am to run and get fit before work, catch planes (or climb mountains). They work evenings and weekends and national holidays. Mostly they do working breakfasts, working lunches, and two meetings in an evening. (One woman I know with two businesses declines evening parties because she goes to bed at nine p.m.)

Some have two businesses, at least two. Actually three overlappy. One business is fading out, about to be sold off to a loyal employee. The second main successful one is supporting the other two. The third is up and coming.

Richard Branson came to open an exhibition of playing cards. A whole queue (Americans say line-up) of people wanted to speak to him. He stayed for the dinner afterwards. I hoped to speak to him after dinner. But before dessert he had left to go to another meeting.

He owns an island. He doesn't camp. He builds. He doesn't just buy a car, or drive car, or drive a train, or own a plane. He owns a train line and an airline.

5 COMMUNICATION
They learn foreign languages. They don't insist on talking their own language. They talk your language.

They don't consider a language is hard to learn or easy to learn. They just do it.

6 SCOUTS?
Scouts are great. Guides are great. (Girl guides, hiking guides and tourist guides.) Summer camps are great. 

Kids who get lost sometimes survive for days. A Japanese kid survived when he found a hut with eqipment. I'm pretty sure he was glad to be found, just as his parents were glad to find him.

7 CRUSOE
Admittedly, a small and exceptional number, one or two, maybe a hundred, famous people got stranded on desert islands or discovered them and decided to stay there. The Mutiny. The painter Rousseau. 

They were the exceptions. Most people on islands want subsidies, tourists, or citizenship elsewhere.  Survival guides tell you how to signal for help to planes, ships, search parties.

7 OUT OF WORK?
When you shut down a major industry, the mines, the car factory, there's a great outcry because 'people will be out of work'. So the workers cannot make their own shoes and clothes, grown their own food, cook their own food, build their own houses. 

8 TEETH TELL TALES
I look at pictures of primitive people. They have missing teeth. In the heyday of Great Britain, nobody had missing teeth. The elderly received crowns, bridges and dentures on the National Health service.

9 LIFE EXPECTANCY
Yes, I know that some islands have remote groups who live to 100. But most don't. What is the life expectancy of a person living Africa or South America outside the big cities? What about all the children dying before the age of 5 because they don't have clean water? 

We did not reach our wonderful civilsation overnight. The three Brontes girls died around the age of 30 (apart from the sisters who died earlier). it took a long time to get where we are now.

With modern transport and the spread of information, the New World can overtake the old world. Britain has water shortages because our old Victorian pipes are leaking. It costs time and money to replace them. New countries can just start with new.

10 GOVERNMENTS
A copany CEO is called in to turn around the finances and organization of a business within a year or two. Governments are expected to have five year plans and show progress before they are out.

In Singapore, from the kampongs (villages) to the skyscrapers. I left Singapore for a brief trip to Greece. Our guide told us the reasons for their lack of insfracstructure (roads from the capital, Athens, to Thessalonia, second city int ht north, were because of occupation by the Turks. That ended in 1910. I though of Singapore, where so much has been accomplished. You need a blalance bewetwen preserving the old ruins, and building the new buildings. The best I have sen are place where a msueum and excavation are left under the skyscraper overhead. 

11 PRESERVED Buildings and and new
Guildhall
For example, The Guildhall in London has Roman remains behind glass under the ground floor, with the Guildhall above, plus a mdoern art gallery. 

Yorvik
Yorvik in York has preserved the findings in a museum, with the development whose foundations discoverd the antiques, contunued above.

By all means preserve the old. But don't neglect the new.

12 TRAVELLERS
I met a gypsy whose relative used to visit formers and look after their beehiaves, colecting the honey twice a year. Very worthwhile. 

Others seem to have no way of making a living. If the 'travellers' can survive without having schools, permanent jobs and paying taxes, why do they have to set up camp in the middle of cities?

13 CARAVANS
Some travellers in my area have been given housing. Maybe they could be given housing with large parkling spaces, keep their caravans, and travel in the summer, like the rest of us, to places where campsites are set up in secluded areas with views.

The people in the city don't like travellers' carvans being parked. The city people complain about theft and litter.

The country people don't like caravan parks where city people invade the scenery.

The Tiny House movement seems a great idea. But the tiny houses need to hook up to electric supplies and waste disposal.

Without income you don't need to pay income tax. Without a fixed address, you don't need to pay
council tax. On the other hand, without a fixed address, you can't claim benefits.

14 RESPONSIBILITY & WORK
Some say that with high taxes, as high as 50%, you are already working the first half of the week for the government (the community) or the first half of the year for them.

To get over the problem of school leavers without experience, and companies not willing to empoly inexperienced staff, we have work experience.

To get over the problem of the young having the latest knowledge, whilst the old are out of date, most industries, including opticians and medical staff, have training days, compusory, every year.

We used to have national service for everyone in the UK. National service still exists in Singapore and Israel.

With robots taking away jobs, maybe we should have a working week where one day a week is for community service.

Students have to pay back loans. Maybe immigrants could be sent to college for language tuition and training in jobs for which there is a market, and have to pay back the loans.

JFK famously said, 'Ask what you can do for your country'. Immigrants should be asked what they can do for the country.

15 ANIMALS
In the city we have romantic views of teddy bears, magnificent lions and adorable baby animals.


Those who live with and train wild animals often get killed. The villagers whose family members and friends are killed by crocodiles don't take kindly to the wild crocodiles nor to the ones on conservation and breeidng areas where the animals and reptiles escape.

Our animals are tamed dogs and cats and in the west we don't eat pets, especially not in the USA and UK. No to guinea pigs, eaten in South America, no to dogs eaten in China, no to horses, eaten in France, no to snails eaten in France, no to frogs legs eaten in France, and only chocolate covered insects at Chrstmas eaten as a novelty, whilst insects are eaten in Africa.

As for killing animals, uproar about a dentist killing a lion. Heads of animals which used to hang on the wall are upsetting Hindus and other animal lovers. We have the Chinese eating anything except the table, and nutritionists saying we could solve the food crisis by eating insects.

Others say modern medicine has increased the number of humans and the answer is contraception and population control.

Animal lovers are divided. The rottweiler lovers and lovers of pack animals against the owners of poodles. The owners of dangerous snakes against their next door neighbours.



16 INSECTS
The haters of spiders are against the haters of flies.
Spider photo courtesy of Trevor Sharot photography.

Mosquitos have apparently kept loggers and citiy folk out of the jungles. In cities such as Singapore fogging keeps down the mosquitos. Laboratories are trying to breed mosqitos which are harmless to breed with the others. So the dear little mosquitos can enjoy sucking our blood without giving us malaria.

My Japanese friend was bitten by a mosquito and got dengue fever. She was in a city with a hospital and recovered.

That reminds me. I must add fly spray and insect repellent to my packing list.

17 HEALTH & SAFETY
I am all for healthy and safety and this includes mental health. Every child and adult should have a check-up at their doctor or a nurse on their well-being. Everything should be covered, aches and pains, lumps, scars, falling hair, sleep, drink drugs, sex, money, jobs, relationships. 

Anybody going through a divorce, bereavement, job loss, should have an automatic check. Anybody with three danger signs, such as loss of job, breakdown of marriage, loss of home, posssession of weapons, making threats to kill others or themselves, should have an urgent review.

Whatever cannot be done by paid workers should be done by volunteers. We have a volunteer police auxiliary force. We need think tanks to look at problems and appoint volunteers. I don't think we can clean leaves on train lines. But we could build fences around train livnes, install traffic lights instead of zebra crossings

SUMMARY - WHAT DO WE NEED?
Civilization is what?
1 Water and food.
2 Clothes.
3 Buildings to proect you from weather and animals.
4 Animals and insects kept away.
5 Big guard dogs and pets and packs of animals kept away from tiny babies, childen, small people, visitors, the frail elderly.
6 Roads and rail connecting people and places.
7 Bridges and walkways and balconies closed to prevent suicides and falling objects.
8 Jobs.
9 Money for those who are briefly sick.
10 Energy sources which are replenished. (Such as wind and water, your shoes as you walk.)
11 Education and Accessible information. (Wikipedia.)

What do you think? Please reply here.
Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Please share links to your favourite posts.

Sunday, July 8, 2018

Travel Teaches You The Meaning Of Life And Why You And Others Travel

Problems
Why do people travel?

1 To learn about the world.
2 To find the meaning of life.
3 To go to a place they have always yearned to see.
4 To escape from danger.
5 Thrill-seeking, excitement, end of boredom.
6 To join a joyful crowd, experience an event.
7 To find the answer to a problem.
8 To find their ancestors or a lost love they are seeking.
9 For romance which eluded them at home.
10 To earn more money. (For yourself, or your family, or your community, or to save somebody who is sick.)

When I go to Toastmasters, the opening speech by any speaker is often the Ice-breaker, when they tell their life story. Sometimes a speaker postpones their icebreaker for as long as two years.

Why? They say they were too shy. They lacked confidence. It was too challenging.

They don't want to admit to themselves or others about their past failures. They don't know how to recall the past without upsetting themselves.

A Chinese Story
Once, a Chinese girl told us her life story - in a table topic, an impromptu speech, which she later expanded into an Icebreaker. When first speaking to her I had admired her for her courage in taking the big journey from rural China to Singapore / Hong Kong at an early age. She studied relentlessly, studied at night, took two jobs, learned two new languages.

I was surprised to find out that hers was partly an escape story. Her parents were separated and hostile to each other. This made her unhappy at home, yo-yo-ing between the two. She went elsewhere to have education and job prospects. She dreamed of a boyfriend and marriage. Her qualifications and jobs and income and accommodation were gradually improving.

She has two motives. One is escape from warring family. The second is build a secure future.

An Indian Story
At another event, I heard an Indian boy's story. He was smartly dressed in a shirt and tie and business suit and worked in a finance company. He lived in a small village with an extended family. His family and the neighbours all worked day and night and pooled their savings to send him to school and then college so he could get a job overseas either from a scholarship or taking the cheapest form of transport and taking every skilled or unskilled job available and paying his way at each step.

The understanding was that he would pay back to the community, sending money from his salary to his family and those who had funded his education and travel. He would also pay for one or two or three children from his home area to go to school and college.

The second time I heard this story, I thought, I've met this young man before. But I hadn't. It wasn't a unique story. If you think you have met the same young man as the first one I met, or second one I met, probably not.

You eventually find that stories you hear form a pattern. They are not necesaarily copied from each other. They are simply patterns of behaviour. Some people are born poor, others are born rich. You meet some of both.

Some are worn down and commit suicide. Others persist and become famous for their success, like Jack Ma, Chinese founder of Ali Baba.

English And Asian Attitudes
Unlike people in England, who sneer at financiers and those who want to earn money, and wearing a suit and tie, he was very proud to be employed and earn a good salary. he said his dream has been to buy his mother a house, and he had achieved that. Now he was still working non-stop, day, evening, overtime, whatever was pleasing to his employers, whatever would keep his job and earn him promotion. Whatever would enable him to get another job elsewhere. Whatever skills he would learn to run his own company.

He has three or four motives. Fulfil the dreams of his family. Help his family. Repay debts. Start a better life.

Conclusion
Draw your own conclusion about others and yourself. I presume you reach the same conclusion that I reach. But when you ask what people learn from a story, the answers you hear are surprisingly divergent.

Why are you travelling? Are you travelling to get away from something or get to something?

Jews After WWII
After WWII, escapting Jews travelled to get away from the dangerous places and regimes and memories they left behind. Some travelled to the yearned for promised land of Israel. Others travlled as far as possble to South America or Australia.

Some tried to escape and hide their past in a totally new environment. They changed religion. They became buddhist, atheist, humanist. I met a Jehovah's witness in Poland who said he or his co-religionists might have been descended from Jews, but for safety nobody ever admitted it, and rarely discussed it, except with a dying grandparent.

Advantages Of Travel
Some went to a Communist country with no religion. Some married somebody from Asia, such as an a Japanese or Chinese or Vietnamese person who had no knowledge or or hostility towards Jews. I met a man who had married an Asian girl. I eventually learned about his grandparent's past. His mother had kept it from him, and encouraged him to travel to Asia and study Asian languages. Her wish was fulfilled. He had a new life.

Jews in WWII, the Kindertransport, have something in common with modern day Chinese and Indian migrants. You admire their enterprise and determination.

Efforts At Assimilation
It can be quite a surprise to learn the initial difficulties they faced. When you meet somebody who seems confident and successful, their past can be a surprise. I have often been taken aback on learning how they started in a dormitory, then it took five or ten years of study and working to learn a new language, get an education, a shared university room or flat, a new skill, a job, a better paid job, a well paid job, their own room, their own flat, owning a flat.

They forgot the past and kept quiet about it, concentrated on their future. If you give them the opportunity to talk, and listen sympathetically, they will tell you.

Revelations - If You Ask
The bouncy, smiling, confident, detmined youg girl starts blinking and licking her lips and sighing as she tells you her past. The suave, loud, or quiet, young man, hesistates, or stammers, when he tells you about his past.

Some tried to hide their poor origins and early suffering. They enthuse about their new contry. Others try preserve what they had lost. Others find a balance. Listen and learn.

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer. Please share links to this post.

What's Is Free And What's Not At Museums And Why?




Problem
The museum is advertised as free. But when you get there they are charging for exhibitions. Why? And what's all this timed entry for?

Answers
Sometimes a rich person or a keen collector leaves their collection of art or objects to the local school or council or the entire country, stupulating that it must be free for all to see.

So far, so good. However, to display works of art or museum objects you need two things, a building with a repair fund, and payments staff. If the museum then attracts other donations, the museum is in a fix. Can they really way, we have two rooms each with space for ten paintings, we already have ten Rembrandts and Ten Van Goghs, what's more people don't want them in the same room, so we don't want your painting.

What can they do? Put out the popular paitnings and keep the othersstacked  downstairs in the basement in storage and hope the buildings won't flood and the paintings won't get stolen without anybody realising the box is empty, or lost or forgotten.

Open another branch museum in another city. Send the piantings off around the world on a tour, charging the recipient museums and countries fees high enough to cover the transport and insurance and travel escorts, and packing and unpacking, and policing on arrival and crowd control.

This has risks but also advantages. Poeple get to hear about your museum. the basement is temporarily cleared of clutter. You can generate income to pay for your staff and increasing updating your home museum or gallery's facilities which never used to be there.

For example, such as self-flushing toilets, security cameras, touch screens to answer visitor questions, guided tours on hand-held devices. What else? Ramps for the disabled, fire exits and fire doors and maybe sprinklers and connections to the police or fire service to comply with new regulations. Modern security may require bag searches and lockers for backpacks. More toilets, self-flushing, hand driers, replacing broken seats and hooks. Building - overhaul of leaking roofs and rising damp. More restaurants and a bigger gift shop to cope with and conveneience the increasing number of visitors. Regular cleaning. Organising events to attract the donors and Friends Of The Museum. training museum guides. Updating captions. Adding direction signs.

At the Horniman museum in London somebody working for the golf area (crazy golf I think) said that the golf there in the summer served a dual purpose. It entertained and attracted visitors.  He didn't say but it just occured to me, the extra outdoor activity kept down the numbers indoors reducing overcrowding. The outdoors attraction, kept some of the excitedly shrieking small children away from disturbing museum visitors. Families and community minded people would be glad children and adults and grandparents could walk or run around in fresh air and get vital vitamin D. The cash could help fund the constant drain on funds by the main museum which needs upkeep and staffing and ever increasing acitivities nowadays, such as marketing and printing.

With public libararies and swimming pools and minor museum in London and all over the UK threatened with closure or already closed, you realise that keeping a free museum free running and serving the entire community requires effort and money.

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker.

Friday, March 16, 2018

Struggling To Learn Korean! Problems and Solutions

Problem
I am struggling to learn Korean. I have been using Duolingo. That was the system which got me started with online learning of languages, for free. It works well for me learning, as an English speaker, European languages such as German, Spanish, Italian and Portuguese. I was so happy when I found they also did the Greek, Hebrew and Cyrillic alphabets (Cyrillic for Russian and Bulgarian). I was equally thrilled when I saw they were starting Korean, Japanese and Chinese.

Chinese, Japanese or Korean
Chinese is the most useful to me. It is spoken in Singapore (where I am a Singapore resident) as well as all over China. Japanese is easier to speak (somehow sayonara, Japanese for goodbye, is easier for me than Ni How?, which is Chinese for how are you, literally you good?

A friend from Toastmasters International who gave me lifts to meetings told me that he was learning Korean in order to talk to his offspring's future in-laws (a Singaporean marrying a Korean girl whose parents speak only Korean, not Chinese nor English). The two men, who had to converse with the aid of their offspring, agreed that they would both spend the six months before the wedding learning each other's languages in order to speak directly to each other.

I immediately thought, ah-hah - somebody else who speaks English is learning Korean. My chance to learn Korean and discuss it with a friend.

Is Korean Easy?
Korean is widely touted as being easy to learn, having fewer letters than other alphabets, as well as using shapes which are supposed to mimic the shape of your mouth when making the sounds. If this is the case, why can't I see it on YouTube?

It would be really helpful if somebody showed the sound on a chart as well as themselves making the sound. If you live anywhere in the world and want to do this, please do it and contact me and I shall be happy to recommend your video.

I regret I have to admit I am not finding Korean easy at all. Korean makes Spanish, Italian and Portuguese seem a doddle. (Oh, dear - doddle - how many hundreds of obscure English words there are! It is amazing that anybody manages to learn another language.)

I am following the forums for the languages I am learning. Often the bilingual speakers get into disagreements over obscure points over words I am never likely to use. But sometimes I get handy links to other sites which explain difficult languages more easily.

I am now making a list of other sites which teach Korean.

The latest site taught me about the blocks of syllables. I now see that vertical vowels, eg those which look like the letter i, are written in pairs or triples like an English word, such as bit. However, those with a horizontal line, the nearest vowel I can think of in English would be the letter e, ae written downwards. So the equivalent of the letters bed with a horizontal vowel would be written like this:
b
e
d
.
The result is that you can look at a syllable in a word and instantly see that the first letter is a consonant, the second to the right or below is a vowel, the third further right or below is a consonant.

Magic. I haven't yet managed to use this information, but it seems like something which will be really helpful.

The website which taught me this hopes you will go on to buy their workbook for about $5. OK. I can remember that when I needed to learn languages and to teach for a living, earning $25 or more for an hour's lesson, I would happily have gone into a bookshop and paid five or ten dollars on a book or any kind to help myself or a pupil. As they say, the price of a cup of coffee.

On the other hand, if you are retired, or in debt, or anxious about spending more money - on the internet you can easily spend five dollars every five minutes and soon be spending more than you earn before tax, and if you are paying tax, spending more than you are earning, you might be very happy to download the first free lesson and not go any further in spending or learning today.

duolingo.com
https://www.howtostudykorean.com/unit0/ (Explains the syllable construction)
https://www.90daykorean.com/.  Highly recommended way to learn the consonants and vowels with pictures which look like the lettes.
http://talktomeinkorean.com/
ImTranslator for Firefox or Chrome, or other extensions like Rememberry

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker.




Wednesday, January 31, 2018

Finding Free Fun Activities


Problems
I want to learning languages, learn to sing, go to social events. First problem, is where to find an activity. It's not hard to find things to do. But most of them cost money.

Answers
You can earn enough to do everything you want.
1 Or search around and pick the cheapest activity.
2 Or search for a free activity.
3 Or start a self-help workshop group where you can get free accommodation for meetings.
4 Or find an online teaching source, then start a group in your home, watching and learning together, or learning and then teaching others.

 1 When I lived in the USA I was isolated. Later, as an expat in Singapore, I discovered groups attached to the clubs, such as The American Club, The British Club, also the Japanese, French, German, Swiss and other groups. If you joined the club you could go to activities such as courses, most of which charged fees. In Singapore cheaper classes for languages, music, art, yoga, tai chi, are held at Community Clubs (whcih used to be called Community Centres.).

Another source of information is Meetup.

If you are near a large public building such as a church, synagogue or mosque, they may display notices of events, some of which are cheap or free because the venue is provided free to help the members or attract outsiders as a community service or to get new members.

For example, in St Lawrence's church in Edgware, I saw a sign for a singing group.

If no group exists yet, you might consider starting one. First steps are to ask around friends, acquaintances, and people in reception or administration in public buildings.

Free First Time
Many courses offer you a free first lesson. Find out the cost of joining because if you like it, you may decide to join. Take business cards or write your name and phone number of email on a few pieces of paper. Then if you find a friend you can stay in touch.

Free Museums
London's free activities include the Guildhall (check opening times and days on their Website) in the city, mentioned in a previous post. Tourist Boards will tell you about free museums, or free days at museums. In some cities such as Caridff in Wales, major museums run by the local council or government are free.

Toastmasters International
Toastmasters International has many clubs and events which are free for guest who simply observe other trainee speaker, although some events incur fees. It depends on their policy and the cost of the venue.

Toastmasters Worldwide
Toastmasters International began in 1924 in California. It is now in 141 countries with 16,400 clubs and more than 352,000 members. I have been to more than 50 clubs in Singapore, as well as several clubs in the UK, several in China, one in Thailand and one in the Czech Republic. If you want to start a club, attend the nearest one and find a couple of other people who are interested in starting a club in your area. The organisation gives free starter packs and all sorts of help for starting a club.


Useful Websites
https://www.toastmasters.org/find-a-club
https://www.meetup.com

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer, photographer, author and speaker.
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Monday, January 22, 2018

The Laws Are Different - Check Them

Problem
I was reading about accusations, apologies, pleading guilty and court cases in America.

In one case somebody says, 'All I want is an apology'. Another case: 'He never admitted his guilt.' 'He denied it!' One comment says, 'How can they deny it! The evidence is there for all to see!'

I read the comments and another reader has said:
The lawyer of the accused tells them to plead guilty so that they can plea bargain later and admit guilt in exchange for something else, a lighter sentence or dropping another charge.

I discussed this with somebody in the UK. They said, "In the UK the laws are different. A defendant will be advised by the lawyers to plead guilty, if they are guilty, and likely to be found guilty, because the penalties rise as you obstruct the court or cost money by making a longer trial to establish guilt.

In cases where a defendant claims to have been tortured, another case occurs. They might plead guilty to end the torture, then retract the confession in court. So things are not as straightforward as they seem at first glance.

In the UK laws can be established by precedent. A lawyer defending you might say, before or after a court case, that a previous trial the defendant was found not guilty in a certain set of circumstances. Therefore the lawyer, if you plead not guilty, will bring up the previous case to try to persuade the judge that it is a waste of time and public money persisting because the jury will follow the findings of the previous case. The defense lawyer will argue persuasively that the case cannot be proven.

The moral is, whether you are in a court or simply reading a newspaper article about a court case, check the laws at the place and time of the court case.

You might also recall the old saying, "Never explain, never apologise." (Was it Oscar Wilde who said that? Or a newspaper proprietor? One accused person said, 'Publish and be damned.')

Car Accident Claims
My instructions from my insurance company in the case of a car accident in the UK were that in the case of an accident you must never hastily apologise or admit guilt at the scene of the accident. You must simply give your name and address and insurance company details and let them establish guilt. The two insurance companies will argue it out between them.

All sorts of things can affect whether or not you are guilty. For examply, one person said after an accident, said 'It was our driver's fault. He was going too slowly in the slow lane.' Hwever, the truck driver collecting the damaged car said, the evidence is the car was hit from the back, so it's automatically the fult of the driver which hit the car in front.

That could compromise your insurance company. You need to check before you speak or judge.

Author, Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker.

Saturday, April 23, 2016

Travel Quotations on travel, food, drink, wine, cities, countries


What can you do with these quotations? Write one or more on your travel notebook or diary.

Frame one for your second home or holiday home.

Print them on a tee-shirt to start conversations with people when travelling.

Hum them along to put yourself in a good mood and pass the time when waiting.

Write a travel quiz for the children or family to keep everybody quiet and busy when waiting in a restaurant.

TRAVEL
It is better to travel in hope than to arrive.
R L Stevenson
Wish me luck as you wave me goodbye (WWII)
We'll meet again (WWII Vera Lynn)

FOOD and DRINK and DINNER
If this is tea, bring me coffee. If this is coffee, bring me tea.
American President Abraham Lincoln

WINE
Life is too short to drink bad wine.

CITIES
USA
New York, New York
Take me back to San Francisco
Chicago - my kind of town
Galveston Oh Galveston
All my exes live in Texas - That's why I leave my hat in Tennessee (Country song)
There is a house in New Orleans
I get my kicks on Route 66

COUNTRIES
USA
I want to be in America
Song from West Side Story

MONEY
Money makes the world go around
Song from musical

WELCOME
Wilkommen, Bienvenue, Welcome
Song from musical film Cabaret

Angela Lansbury, B S Hons, author and speaker.
Author of
Quick Quotations
Who Said What When.