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Tuesday, September 13, 2022

Coping with bereavement - royal or personal

 


One thing the queen knew, that dogs are devoted to you and a comfort in times of trouble.

This photo is from Facebook, from my friend who introduced me to Toastmasters International, Indra.

Customs vary, the rich and the poor, the English and the Irish, the Christian and the Jewish, Victorian and modern, UK and China.

What are the steps in coping with bereavement?

1 The married or elderly person making a will and giving instructions regarding their burial or cremation, funeral or memorial. 

2 Paperwork. Refusal to believe it is about to happen, or has happened. Guilt. Anger. Acceptance. Moving on.

3 Display or transfer of Body. Viewing. Retrieving jewellery or placing it on the body. Travel.

4 Notices to relatives that somebody is dying, has died, and the funeral. (Protocol varies.)

5 Funeral includes speech by the nearest and dearest and/or a minister. Music. Readings. Order of service.

6 Burial. Return to relax at funeral tea. 

Wake. (In New Orleans a jazz music and dance parade celebration of the dead person gone to heaven.)

Letters of condolence. BOOKS of condolence. Cards. Thank you cards. Gifts to charity. Flowers. (Not for Jewish funerals.) Suitable wording. 

At a Jewish shiva, or evening prayers, you wish the family 'long life'. Why? Maybe to be positive and forestall the desire to commit suicide to be no longer alone or to join the loved one in heaven.

7 Will. Distribution of goods. Paperwork and taxes/probate.

8 Family agreement or argument!

9 Demonstration of grief - or appearing composed in public, crying in private.

19 Flashbacks, blaming self or others. Refusal to accept it. Anger. Stoicism. Depression. Relief (that suffering is over).

11 Dealing with well=wishers, and enemies or debt collectors.

12 Payment for funeral. Selecting tombstone and wording, giving dates of birth, and death, and survivors, and a motto or description. In Russia, Greece, and other countries, a photo or statue or monument showing the face and body and profession or hobby of the deceased.

13 House clearance.

14 obituaries - preparing and/or reading.

15 Preserving or disposing of or house clearance.

16 Distributing photos and mementoes.

17 Moving on - remarriage.

18 Consolation from pets or children or carers.

19 Talking it through.

20 Escapism. Holidays. Moving on. 

21 Lessons learned - for dealing with death, preparing one's own will and distributing one's own money, property or other assets.

22 Preserving fading memories. (Gravestone settled and visited on one year anniversary. "Stone-setting'.

23 In some countries the body is dug up and dressed in new clothes: 

A) (Sulawesi, Indonesia), set at a dinner table with the family. 

B) Madagascar, Africa.

Useful Websites

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/sep/13/whats-behind-the-mystery-of-thousands-of-excess-deaths-this-summer

https://community.sueryder.org/c/coping-with-bereavement

https://www.i4give.com/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_and_state_funeral_of_Elizabeth_II

Indonesia

https://directfuneral.com.sg/embalmers-and-what-exactly-do-they-do/?gclid=CjwKCAjw1ICZBhAzEiwAFfvFhJbouiaxEjekqc_oEEpIvW5VK2aHf9IPnzdQpSJa8-BghGa_8Xdz8xoCIvkQAvD_BwE

https://tribuneonlineng.com/families-dig-up-corpses-of-relatives-dress-them-in-new-clothes-in-indonesias-bizarre-festival-12-photos/#:~:text=festival%20(12%20PHOTOS)-,Families%20dig%20up%20corpses%20of%20relatives%2C%20dress%20them%20in%20new,Indonesia's%20bizarre%20festival%20(12%20PHOTOS)&text=Every%20August%2C%20families%20gathered%20to,of%20their%20ancestors%20in%20Indonesia.

https://nypost.com/2018/01/05/villagers-dig-up-dead-relatives-and-dress-them-in-bizarre-ritual/

Madagascar - new clothes on old bodies

Youtube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0FaItWmA0BQ

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Monday, January 31, 2022

The biggest, best, most, highest, tallest - what has your country got? Here's Tanzania.

Flag of Tanzania.



Map of the world showing Tanzania on the East African Coast.

From Tanzania I received this message:

 Tanzania has the highest mountain in Africa, the Kilimanjaro.

Elephant and snow-capped Kilimanjaro. 

My husband did this climb, once. (I exercise daily, by climbing out of bed.)

A climber on Kilimanjaro.


Victoria, Tanganyika and Nyasa the three largest lakes in Africa are also largely in Tanzania.

Serengeti, the world largest game reserves and many other national parks are available in Tanzania.

What does your country have? Or your favourite country?

More on Tanzania
Art. Tingatinga painting.

Wikipedia reveals:

Tingatinga (also spelt Tinga-tinga or Tinga Tinga) is a painting style that developed in the second half of the 20th century in the Oyster Bay area in Dar es Salaam (Tanzania) and later spread to most East Africa. Tingatinga is one of the most widely represented forms of tourist-oriented paintings in Tanzania, Kenya and neighboring countries. The genre is named after its founder, Tanzanian painter Edward Said Tingatinga.

The Tingatinga school of painting sold their work in Oyster Bay, Dar es Salaam. Picture from 1973

Tingatinga is traditionally made on masonite, using several layers of bicycle paint, which makes for a brilliant and highly saturated colors. Many elements of the style are related to requirements of the tourist-oriented market; for example, the paintings are usually small so they can be easily transported, and subjects are intended to appeal to the Europeans and Americans (e.g., the big five and other wild fauna).


A feature of the art, which was probably inspired by murals on the outside of houses in Tanzania, is the filling of the entire canvas.

In visual art, horror vacui (UK: /ˌhɒrə ˈvækjuaɪ/, US: /- ˈvɑːk-/; Latin for 'fear of empty space'), also referred to as kenophobia (from Greek for 'fear of the empty'), is the filling of the entire surface of a space or an artwork with detail. In physics, horror vacui reflects Aristotle's idea that "nature abhors an empty space."

The tallest land Animals - giraffes

(Where next? The famous Giraffe Manor hotel is in Nairobi, Kenya. Costing over 600 dollars a night if you can get a room. It has 12 bedrooms. Next door is a giraffe sanctuary where you can meet giraffes.)

Monuments
Arusha Declaration Monument, has murals around the plinths of the arches.


If you climb Kilimanjaro, you will have ample opportunities to buy tee-shirts with the word Kilimanaro on them.
However, if you don't want casual clothes but something special and national look for a Kanzu for men.

The male costume, especially for formal occasions, is a white or cream coloured kaftan or Kanzu or robe or floor-length tunic. The kanzu is worn with a cap called a Kofia. (Other African countries wear the same or similar). 


the female common costume is a kitenge, a wax print, brightly coloured, oblong sarong, edged on the long side. It can be wrapped around the body, used as a baby sling, a head-dress, a table cloth or wall hanging.

Useful Websites
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/9/95/Arusha_Declaration_Monument_mural_B.jpg
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kanzu
https://www.facebook.com/kitengeclothing/
https://www.businessinsider.com/giraffe-manor-center-travel-advice-kenya-instagram-famous-2019-4
https://www.guinnessworldrecords.com/records/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_highest_mountains_on_Earth
https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=471680081168487


About the author of this blog post
Angela Lansbury
About the Author Angela Lansbury

BIOGRAPHY

Angela Lansbury B A Hons ACG ALB PM5 EH5 DL5 VC5 
The Author of several books including  Etiquette For Every Occasion. Wedding Speeches & Toasts. How to be the Best Man. Quick Quotations. Who Said What When.

Blogs travelwithangelalansbury.blogspot.com

dressofthedayangela.blogspot.com

translateforfun.blogspot.com

Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters Speakers Club Vice President Public Relations (VPPR), Previous President

Join BHA 1st Wednesday 7pm and 3rd Saturday 2 pm Singapore time 

Vice President Public Relations (VP PR) of Tampines Changkat Advanced;

Secretary of weekly online Singapore International Dynamic Toastmasters Speakers’ Club;

Member and past president of Harrovians toastmasters club, UK; Past member of HOD Toastmasters, London. Past member in Singapore of: Toastmasters Club of Singapore (TCS); Tiarel; and Senja Cashew.

More details from Toastmasters International find a club.

Regular attendee at annual Swanwick Writers’ School, England.

Regular attendee at annual Writers’ Holiday, Wales.

Contributor to poetry readings, and after tea courses on: Speaking On Radio To Promote Books; and Plots And Character.

Winner of many club and area speaking contests in the UK and Singapore.

Language advisor to Empire Toastmasters club in Indonesia.

Language and speech workshops in Singapore.

Speaker on radio and TV in England, Scotland, the USA, and Australia.

Compiler of a school course on public speaking for teachers to prepare pupils for school open days with attending ceremonies before government ministers, Singapore.

Former member of Harrow Writers’ Circle, London, and two writing groups in Singapore.

Angela is on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Pinterest, Twitter. She would be delighted to link up with new friends.

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Books by Angela Lansbury
How to be the best man. (Ward Lock / Cassell.)
Wedding Speeches and Toasts.(Ward Lock / Cassell.)
Unforgettable British Weekends.
Poetry Workshop Workbook.
The Tailor and the Spy. (Lulu.)
Larry The Talking Labrador. (Lulu.)
Writing Poetry for fun.

Quick Quotations

Who Said What When



 





Saturday, November 2, 2019

Dessert in the Desert. French Menu Words Made Easy For French Restaurants and Travelling to French Speaking Countries


Flag of France

You can find French menus is France, Belgium, Switzerland, Canada, St Martin in the Caribbean, many more French speaking islands, French speaking Africa, and major cities all over the world.

A fancy French restaurant - how exciting. But how do I read the menu? Here are some French words you may see on a menu. Mystery solved.

amuse-bouche or amuse gueule - literally to amuse your mouth - complimentary, compliments of the chef, a teeny taste to keep you busy with a bite size morsel while they are preparing your next course

croissant - crescent, crescent shaped flaky pastry often eaten for breakfast, in Paris and France and sold freshly baked.  Where do they find the room to cook, don't worry, it might actually mean baked in an oven or microwave from supplied dough, or shaped dough. Find it in supermarkets in London even a tiny branch of Tesco Express. Nowadays the crescent is often straightened out.


Croissant cut to show texture. Photo by SKopp in Wikipedia under croissant.

Biftek - beefsteak - a Franglish or mixed English and French word, English beefsteak pronounced the French way

boeuf - beef - the English word beef comes from the French word for beef or cow, (vache being the female or dairy cow)

bombe - bomb or ball shaped desserted, often chocolate with ice cream inside, sometimes exploding to reveal contents when heated, an exciting surprise.

dessert - dessert or sweet dish - from/outside of, the service, just like hors d'oeuvre or starter is outside the service of the main course. From des servir, so the letter 's' doubled. Now you can remember that dessert is the sweet dish. Desert with only one s is the noun sandy desert, short of water and short of the double s. Desert, to desert, the verb to desert also has a single s. Only the sweet dessert with too much sugar has the double s. Alternatively remember that the word sweet has a double e and the word dessert has a double s.

flambé - flamed (The word is pronounced flom-bay to rhyme with Bombay. That upward accent tells you that your voice goes up at the end of the word as if you were asking a question. The accents are there to help you. The same system is used in translating other languages including Chinese). Just think of flambé like the word comb which has a silent b and you will instantly see and remember that the word flambé means flame.




glacé - glazed or with icing or preserved as in glace cherries

hors d'oevre - literally outside of (the main) work or main course, starter

Maitre d - master of - all the other waiters, man in charge of dinner time servers. Want help, not satisfied got a complaint or compliment, call for him. He may wear a smarter outfit.
menu - menu


Petits fours, picture from Wikipedia.

Petit four (singular) or petits fours (plural) - Petit means small as in the word petite which is feminine ending in e. The four is the oven like a furnace, so you know this is some cooked concoction, not merely fruit, but little things cooked in the oven. Up come tiny biscuits and cakes and chocolate whatnots and all or mostly marzipan shapes, sweets to end the meal.

Pain au chocolat - bread or pastry with chocolate chips or filing inside, for breakfast in France and UK supermarkets and hotel buffets

Pot de chocolat - pot of chocolate, or chocolate pot




The sommelier. Photo from Wikipedia.

sommelier - knows something about serving the wine, much more than you do and is happy to advise because he has a qualification in serving wine and spends hours choosing the wines and bargaining and buying and storing them at the right temperature and serving them at the right temperature hopes to get a tip if you like his suggestions

service compris - service included (as in the word comprised)

valet parking - they park your car and take the keys so they can bring it back. Check if this service is complimentary, if the restaurant make a charge, if you have a choice, if you are expected to leave a tip

Where do you find French?
WIKI SAYS:
French is an official language in 29 countries across multiple continents,[5] most of which are members of the Organisation internationale de la Francophonie (OIF), the community of 84 countries which share the official use or teaching of French. It is spoken as a first language (in descending order of the number of speakers) in France, the Canadian provinces of Quebec, Ontario and New Brunswick as well as other Francophone regions, Belgium (Wallonia and the Brussels-Capital Region), western Switzerland (cantons of Bern, Fribourg, Geneva, Jura, Neuchâtel, Vaud, Valais), Monaco, partly in Luxembourg, the states of Louisiana, Maine, New Hampshire and Vermont in the United States, and in northwestern Italy (region of Aosta Valley).

Useful Websites
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:French_pastries

Note that the French accent in Paris is different from the French accent in Canada. To hear the french click on the sound symbol in Wikipedia, Google translate and several other websites.

You can use your French in Belgium, Canada, France, Switzerland and French islands in the Caribbean such as St Martin, and in many more countries as well as when reading menus in French restaurants, in kitchenware shops.
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To learn more French and many other languages such as Spanish, you can use the free websites for beginners, such as Duolingo and Memrise:




Useful Websites
Free Language Learning
duolingo.com
memrise.com
https://translate.google.com/



SHOPS
Cheese Shops in London, England
https://www.lafromagerie.co.uk/
French Department Stores worldwide
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Printemps
www.galerieslafayette.com

TRAVEL
UK Tourist website
visitbritain.com


French Tourist Board Website
http://ee.france.fr/


BELGIUM
http://visitbelgium.com/

CARIBBEAN - ST MARTIN
Official website of the Tourist Office of St Martin island in the Caribbean, information on the island of St Martin, French West Indies.

Canadian Cities Tourist Board Website
http://www.visit-canada.com/

Swiss tourist official website
https://www.swiss.com/


General Information on food, wines and service
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sommelier

About the Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Please share links to your favourite posts.

Saturday, June 30, 2018

Strange things about Madeira, Volcanoes, Water, Waterfalls, the wet Westerlies, the world's islands and wet places

Problem
Where? Most people don't know of Madeira but don't where Madeira is. I had been there before but had forgotten the location. It's the fate of many islands, such as Singapore and Malta.

Black Volcanic Ash
The island is made of black volcanic ash. It was formed from a volcanic eruption. So were many islands. Think of: Hawaii.

Indonesia's Eruptions
Everybody has heard of Krakatowa. It was well documented by survivors.
Another of the Indonesians' islands was a greater disaster for local people and the whole world.  On Sumbawa an eruptions created the year of endless night, which reached as far as England and Europe in the early 1800s.

Red Earth
So the volanic eruptions leave black ash and black beaches. But Madeira also has red earth. Like Singapore and parts of Africa and Devon in England. I know. I spent a lot of time wiping Madeira's red dust from my shoes off the sills of the hire car. Then more time wiping the 'red' - or rather orange, stain off my white and turquoise trainers.

The World's Wet and Windy Places
Wet areas of Madeira and Singapore are on one side of the island. The winds blow one way because of the rotation of the earth. As the earth spins the air moves past. The air drops water vapour on the mountain tops so you get streams and waterfalls running down towards the sea at sea level.

The West and the West and the Westerlies
The west of Singapore, around places called Bukit, which is Malay for hill, gets more rainfall, more than the drier East near Changi airport.

Madeira Levadas - Water Channels
On Madeira the farmers built levadas or draining channels or waterways taking water to their land. The rainfall means green grass, bushes, trees.

Tropical Weather and Plants
Heat means tropical colourful flowers, and palm trees.

Madeira is south of England, hotter. Heat and wet means tropical plants, bananas, coconuts from coconut palms, cane for sugar and rum.


Useful Websites
lastminute.com
opodo.co.uk flight comparison website
tripadvisor.co.uk
tripadvisor.com
visitmadeira.com
Wikipedia.org Madeira
Wikitravel.org Madeira
Wikivoyage.org Madiera

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker.




Saturday, February 17, 2018

Travellers! What are the advantages of travel? Do you appreciate your homeland and other countries more?

It is better to travel in hope than to arrive.
I am a citizen of the world. (Mahatma Gandhi.)

Problem
When I worked at the British Council I learned that people who went to live overseas go through three phases:
1 Excitement at the novelty of a new country. (First day, first week, first month.)
2 Homesickness. (Missing family and friends, familiar foods, items you can't buy, services you can't find, new friends who leave, help withdrawn since you are no longer new, temporary accommodation in hotel replaced by home where you have to do your own cooking and cleaning and organising.
3 Settling in. (You have a doctor, dentist, friend, companions at work, people in local shops who you remember, neighbours.)
4 Return home - appreciate home. Appreciate country you have visited.

Sometimes it is a joy to return home and find that you did not appreciate your home country until you left.

Advantages Of London, England
Waste Disposal
In London, England, I love having a waste disposal. I like having letters and post delivered to my door, not left in a postbox like in the USA and Singapore - although in any country things which have to be signed for and big parcels and urgent deliveries can come to your door.

In London I appreciated knowing that kitchens would always have hot water and windows. 


Life was very different when we went to live in Singapore, in 1993.



Our first rented flat in Singapore, in a new block, had no hot water ("You can use a kettle." It had unglazed windows. "To let the smell out.")

English Food
You can buy English food overseas, if you divert to an expensive supermarket. But in the UK it's everywhere. I remember arriving in Singapore and apologising to a British girl I met at an expat women's association. I said, "I"m so sorry, I've only got a tin of baked beans." She replied, "That's wonderful! I've just come back from Papua New Guinea. Over there you'd kill to get a tin of baked beans."

Some countries are difficult. One country in Africa was so difficult to live in, so isolated and physically and mentally challenging, that instead of the usual one year assignment, teachers of English had to be brought back after six months before they got ill or had a mental breakdown and turned suicidal.

Overcoming Isolation
Overcoming isolation involves several actions:
1 The attitude that you will make the best of it.
2 Trips home or Skype so you can see and talk to people, friends, family, colleagues from base, familiar faces and voices.
3 Physical contact. People who hug you, or trips home to see family. Skype won't give you physical contact. Failing all else, a dog or animal to be your friend, giving friendly eye contact, distraction, empathy with your mood, sympathy when you are sick, lonely, or sad, and touch and somebody who listens.

4 Travellers And Ex-pats Who Stay In Contact
People who stay in contact by email, on Facebook, or on Skype, from your home country, or going back to your home country to prevent isolation when you get home.

5 Status and friendship.
 If you are welcomed as a teacher or doctor or visitor or customer.
Possibilities are:
Student and volunteer schemes.
Starting your own help organization.
Working for charity, fund-raising, liaison, Gofunding, sponsored rides.
and safety in your new country.

6 Safety
 If you have a guide in person, advice on the phone, safety garments, contact with local hospitals, doctors, dentists, embassies, friends locally or back home.

7 Overcoming Depression - For travellers and ex-pats
Depression comes in two types:
1 Every day temporary depression - you miss sleep or haven't eaten. Most important in hot countries is hydration.

Same whether sightseeing, shopping, in hospitals and at home. If you have difficulty swallowing or no access to fresh water you become lethargic. You miss appointments, don't go out and see people. Americans keep bright and cheery by drinking water, provided free all around in hotels, everywhere.

Stress
Exams. Students who are likely to fail, or fear they might, get stressed.

2 Underlying depression
Clinical depression, permanent, even if no reason for it.

Conclusion
It's useful to know the stages of mood. But it's not enough. When I first arrived in Singapore, I knew I would go through the homesick phrase.

I was not working and had no work permit. I had no idea how easy. (Admittedly after initial difficulty finding my university certificate. I emailed our son in London to look for it. Nowhere to be found (not son, certificate.) It must be on the wall in a frame, I insisted. Maybe behind another one. Sure enough, it was hidden behind another in a frame on the wall). After that, it was easy to get a work permit. (A school organised it for me. I went back to the UK and came back with my university certificate proving I had a university degree. The day I arrived back I went straight to the school. They sent me in a taxi with a typed brief note saying I was a native English speaker urgently needed for teaching a class starting an hour later. In twenty minutes I was back with my work permit!

What Can You Do About Stress
Be safe not sorry. Wear pic pocket proof clothing. A place for everything and everything it its place. Carry a refillable water bottle. Drink water and go to the toilet before you need it. Find out about ex-pat groups, local employment and sources of finance and help (banks and hospitals) before you or your colleagues need it.

Link up with local people and with ex-pats. (Some people prefer one or the other.)

For local links:
National
Your national association or ex-pat association or learners of your language, or teachers of the local language.

Sport
Your sporting association, golf, tennis, worldwide running, cycling, any sport - meet international or local joggers, dog walkers, tennis players, golfers, swimmers, motor bikers, followers of football or car racing.

Culture
Cultural association: Friends of the museum, volunteer guide at a local museum, which may give training and organise events to thank volunteers. Groups of writers. Book clubs.

Language
Languages - learn the local language.

No good at languages?
Travel and see the world for free in the safety of a group? Join the army or navy or air force. If you don't like fighting - be an office worker, language teacher or technician. No skills - be a cook. You can train from about age 16 to be a cook. I met recruiters for Navy cooks at a food show in London.  Instant family and friends.

No good at languages? Learn Esperanto. Their passport puts you in touch with people worldwide who will put you up for free for up to three days in their home if you are willing to speak Esperanto to them. (Take an Esperanto dictionary and your Duolingo ap and practice in advance with the help of the Wikitravel phrase book.)

Keep busy. Stay Happy.

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Please share links to your favourite posts.


Thursday, October 5, 2017

Bill Gates Free Museum, Water, and Toilets


Washington state, USA, top left, is where you can visit Bill Gates' free museum near the Seattle Center and Space Needle.

I am going to tell you about problems with toilets, how to solve them, and the Bill and Melinda Gates museum and exhibition center you can visit, and read about, in Seattle, Washington, USA.

Problems (and solutions)
Here's are some problems which have bothering me, and some of them are being solved by Bill and Melinda Gates.
1 Traveller's Tummy
Either you or your family or somebody you know has had diarrhoea on holiday, after a meal out at a restaurant. Hand washing can stop your re-infecting yourself. Those signs in UK toilets in restaurants are not just for patrons. The signs are a legal requirement to remind staff to wash their hands.(If the sign is in the toilet, probably staff use this toilet and there's no other one for staff.)

2 Piles
Somebody you know at some time has developed constipation or hemorrhoids (piles), nowadays thought to come from too long sitting down at home, work and on transport. (So how come my now retired gardener got piles? But he may be just one exception. Two things are 100 percent certain, as American Benjamin Franklin said, death and taxes. All other stats are mainly about probabilities and how near you can get to 100 percent, such as reducing fatalities.)




3 Toilet Safety
Women in India and other countries have been attacked when going out to the fields or open land at night because homes have no indoor toilets. More toilets are needed in homes and public buildings.
Toilets in Malaysia and some toilets in Singapore have kiddie low-level urinals. Often near the door of the Ladies. I saw a boy's urinal in the Ladies in the new station, Cashew station, in Singapore.

4 More Toilets Needed
Local authorities have not enough money to build toilets and are closing those which exist to save money on maintenance. Toilets should be a priority. Volunteers, paid toilets with one free cubicle (which was the norm in 1950s Great Britain when people would say euphemistically, 'I have to spend a penny'). Shopping malls and railway stations where the free communal toilet is paid for my all the shops and used by staff and customers, with hourly checks.

5 Toilets Are Being Built
Some organizations are building toilets in Africa. But in places without running water, you need to dispose of waste without open sewers, nor infecting water such as rivers, beaches, and the sea.

Story
Through a London branch of Toastmasters International, the Harrovians speakers' club in London, I met Apollo, who changed jobs and came back to tell us how he was helping a project to provide toilets in Africa. He said, "It's very gratifying. In my previous work, nobody thanked me. After I helped install a toilet in Africa, a happy woman came to me with tears in her eyes and said, 'Thank you'.

6 Urine and sewage must not pollute public places (such as lifts in skyscrapers and stairwells in car parks) so we need more public toilets. Singapore and the UK have has evidence from modern technology of people committing offences and have been able to take punitive and preventive measures.

All of us, every day, have personal needs. We all need a drink of water and a toilet throughout the day, at home and when travelling.

Nowadays people carry bottled water with them everywhere, adults and children. America is the best country for water.

The United Nations tells us we need to adopt a squatting position on the toilet, and to wash our hands, with soap, after going to the toilet and before eating. Once we have sorted out ourselves, we need to ensure that everybody worldwide has access to indoor toilets and hand washing. Who says?

Story
I came across this news in a roundabout way through my daily research. I was looking for events this month and throughout the year. I looked up the United Nations days of the year. I found two interesting pages, one which sounded abstract, on statistics, the Statistics Day, I've already heard a lot about water, Just A Drop charity at World Travel Market, but the other which seemed more purely practical, World Toilet Day. Statistics and toilets are connected.

Let's look at hand washing. I had seen reports that hand-washing cuts down on diarrhea, or re-infecting yourself.

Singapore Signs
I had also seen the signs in Singapore about washing your hands with soap, and how to wash the back of your hands and how long to do it. The Singapore newspapers, heavy and light, and the internet had run articles about hand washing and backup stories showed how to persuade people to wash their hands, and wash with soap and wash longer. (Oops - do you use soap EVERY time? From now on I will!

Answers (and more problems)
The United Nations.
Bill Gates is investing. We need new designs of toilets to cope with those who want to squat in places with only pedestal or throne toilets and opportunities to sit on a throne or pedestal in places with only squatting toilets.

Most places worldwide have only one type of toilet. Anybody from England in the old days (the 1950s to today) would have gasped and shouted to others in horror on trips overseas, "It's a French toilet!" Two or three or four decades later I noticed the French restaurants, hotels, and homes had mostly abandoned their squat toilets. The French tourists in Singapore, finding a squat toilet at the end of the row of cubicles in the ladies, said, "Oh la la! Toilette Turque!" (Oh, no! A Turkish style toilet.)

How does this affect me as a traveller? Or as an armchair traveller researching at home, somebody in the tourist industry, organizing a meeting, choosing a venue, giving to a charity, spreading the news on the media? What about giving to charity, paying tax, local government?

What worries me about the Daily Mail article headline is that it spreads the seeds of doubt in the mind of those who think you should not bother to wash hands.

I have had a nurse in a doctor's surgery tell me that it's pointless to wash her hands before giving me a blood test 'because germs are in the air all around you' and her supervisor at a hospital had told her not to waste time on washing herself and the patients. A year later I got a different set of stories story about all the precautions and guarantees, that the needle for each patient was new, and she washed her hands between patients etc.

I caught myself infected by the doubt and thinking about washing hands, "Oh, it doesn't matter". I am glad to re-read the research and remind myself that: yes, it does matter.

One study purports to show that squatting improves the speed and ease of going to the toilet.

After a member of my family had what could have been life-threatening lymphoma, four of us spend hours every week exchanging emails on academic studies about the statistics of recovery and different treatments.
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The good news is
1 Bill Gates is encouraging and investing in research to improve and distribute toilets worldwide.
2 You can visit his FREE museum on the subject in Seattle, Washington. 

FREE MUSEUM TO VISIT IN SEATTLE, WASHINGTON USA
VISITOR CENTRE
Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation Visitor Center
440 Fifth Ave N.
Seattle, WA 98109
(206) 709-3100 ext. 7100
Open Tues-Sat
10 am - 5 pm
Admission free

GO TO PAGE TO SEE Nov 2nd 2017 Discovery Center Launch Party 5-8 pm pacific time.
https://www.gatesfoundation.org/Visitor-Center
Read on:
You may be interested to check out for yourself the two pages I looked at - as well as the article in the Daily Mail.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3830867/Why-NOT-wash-hands-soap-GOOD-thing-health-allergy-expert-explains.html

Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer
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PS

I then remembered an article in the Daily Mail and went to look it up. My view is that the headline is misleading. the United Nations figures are very clear. So are the facts in the body of the Daily Mail article.

The United Nations report and Statistics figures show that about 1 in 6 children in the early 1800s and in some of the under developed third world countries die before the age of five today. That is far higher than the numbers dying from nut allergies.

It doesn't mean we should allow people to die from nut allergies. But nor does it mean we should stop washing our hands, as the article said, for the very young and fragile, the elderly, those in the food service industries, should still wash hands.

Looking at the statistics, as well as from general knowledge, you can see that survival rates in maternity hospitals, hospitals in general, are statistically improved by hand washing. The Un statistics show that the death rates and illness rates go down dramatically with hand washing. Hand washing reduces diarrhea as well as breathing problems. Ability to thrive and work depends on the brain, the lungs, and the heart. Diarrhoea affects not only the circulation of the blood but the lungs.

Inspecting meat by the Glatt kosher inspectors involves checking the lungs to see if an animal was healthy. Now I can see why.

STATISTICS VALIDATION ASIDE
The statistician in the family was the final arbiter of the conclusions. We looked first at the credentials. 
Was this somebody's opinion? 
Did the researcher have more than one person studied to prove the conclusion. 
('My Dad did x, such as smoking, and survived,' is not a guarantee to other people. Why? Because Dad might be the only survivor of 999 who died doing the same thing.)

If genetics plays a part, somebody else's Dad might have a strong constitution. People who are sick need to know what prevention and cure treatments help people like patients who are already ill and have different genetics or inherited characteristic and constitution. 

We were always looking at: 
how many people were studied; 
over what period of time; 
were the results greater than the normal statistical variation which would normally occur by chance, from the toss of dice; 
and were the same results found later by other studies elsewhere - 
plus how recent was the research?  

Was there a control group? If eating bananas or baked beans happened in countries which had WWII, that might seem to prove that baked beans or bananas created WWII. But if eating bananas before and after WWWII, or in countries not involved in WWII, you can see that bananas did not cause WWII. (The same applies to praying for rain, which keeps failing until eventually weather changes independently of the prayers, and predicting whether you will have a boy or girl and giving the money back to the 50% who had a boy and could be bothered to complain and ask for money back.) Did recent studies back up the earliest ones?
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