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Thursday, December 21, 2023

Xmas clothes for an Xmas theme Toastmasters International club meeting

Harrovians Xmas club meeting 2023. Photo by Angela Lansbury.
 

Harrovians Toastmasters Club in Harrow, London. 

Years ago I would not have bought a season outfit. Waste of money as you only wear it once to a party. Too twee.

Might offend non-Christian friends.

Then, one year I saw one in a sale. When asked to dress in Xmas theme, I can oblige. 

In theory I should keep it in a suitcase up in the attic or an outroom such as a store room, maid's room, scullery/utility room.  The suitcase would be labelled Xmas with a all the decorations. 

However, I tend to keep most things out. This works well if you want to find it in a hurry. I did. iwent to my cupborad of thick woolly jumpers and found it immeditely on the top of the pile.

 Red skirt

A black skirt would do, but a red skirt is jolly. Luckily I have several. I pulled out a red skirt. EWM Pure Classics Size 14. 49% linen. 45%  viscose. 6% cotton. Keep away from fire. It looks thick, but isn't. It is lightweight, which is comfortable to wear, but not very warm in winter. 

So, for extra warmth, I am wearing a black underslip, and orange stretch velvet look tracksuit bottoms.

Remove belt before washing. 

White Blouse

100 % polyester. Wash at 30 degrees C. It has  8 front buttons plus one on each cuff, total ten. 

Xmas Pattern Jumper

Label F & F. That's the Tesco label.

Useful Websites

My blog on labels.

Amazon xmas tops.

Friday, June 10, 2022

How to appear at distant events with a time difference




How to appear at distant events with a time difference.

 The simple solution is to do a recording. If you prefer, have a photo of yourself on screen.



 I wrote this on Friday Jun 10th, on receiving the reminder from organizing chair Rahul Mehndiratta, about the Toastmasters International, District 80/ Div S, Achievers Day 2021, 10 am to 12 noon.

I checked time on timebie.com. The event is 3 am to 5 am UK time.


S For SUCCESS

S stands for Singapore, S stands for Success

And Division S, yes, yes, yes

In Toastmasters, we like to send

Great surprise starts and echoing ends 


Kipling said East and West could never meet

Poor Kipling had not heard of Zoom

We're busier than a crowded street

With screens in every country's room


I can't be with you, I'm fast asleep

But organizers don't frown and weep

Don't shake your head and tut and curse

I've sent my photo and written verse


I shall start with dear 'Chair' Rahul

A man who sees a glass half full

And organizes opportunity

For wakeful you and sleepy me 

(12.46 pm Friday)


How quickly can I be a poet

And help my fellow friends to do it?

How do you start, and end, and win it?

The secret, as always, is - just begin it


Just make sure that you can be heard

You can use a dictionary of rhyming words

Listen how the syllables are said

I link rhyme chains inside my head


I have blogspots on comic verse

I have a poetry workbook

I have blogspots on what I wear

Each day new colours, take a look

12.51 pm

And now I've told you what to do

I'd like to give some praise to you


We started with TMD Thomas Chen

He wins ribbons again and again

We also heard from winner Shuzen

Another notable DTM


Poh Kim Siong our honoured guest

Gave 3 Es and 3Cs in his (guest) address

We grew clubs with prize-giving Swarna Kalyan

Today, awards given by careful Koh Lee Siang


To make sure you don't go too far

You're timed by Ravindar Kumar

And zoom master Zeph Teo

A duo with Datta says, gosh - we must go.


Next Director will be our old friend Saddiq

Who always gets things done real quick

When I call up to ask Saddiq

He says, 'Yes, that was done last week'


Division S thinks we're the best

Yet there's much potential in the rest

By holding (out) hands we help do more

In District 80, Singapore.


(By Angela Lansbury PM5, EH5

VP PR of BHA and TCA

Former Area Director of S3)

Author of: Improve Your English 

Add Alliteration, assonance and rhyme (on Amazon)


Useful Websites

http://www.timebie.com/timezone/singaporelondon.php

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Improve-Your-English-alliteration-assonance-ebook/dp/

ebook and paperback plus postage (unless you are a paid up member of Amazon Prime which gives free postage included)

UK price ebook 15 pounds 21 pence, paperback 20 pounds sterling.  If you buy the paperback, when Angela is in the same country she can sign it for you and write a rhyming couplet on your name. If you buy the ebook, she can email or whatsapp a rhyming couplet on your name.

For BHA meetings I added an extra verse

Yenny is BHA's president

We and she agree her year was well spent 

She soothed our ills and taught new skills

A walking ad wherever she went.

Tuesday, April 19, 2022

LEARN LANGUAGES LIKE POLYGLOTS: GRACIAS | MY THANK YOU SONG ! VIDEO MOTIVACIONAL EN 45 IDIOMAS


The word thank you is similar in several languages. for example, in Malay and Indonesian termimah kasih, which sounds like terribly ...

Singapore has bilingual English and Mandarin or English and Tamil clubs. You can give your speech in either language.

Useful Websites
https://omniglot.com/language/phrases/help.htm

Thursday, June 3, 2021

Should You Pledge, recite, gesture, watch, listen, or stay silent?

An Indian friend attended a US toastmasters club meeting and joined in the pledge. Her Indian nationalist friend objected. A long debate on Facebook discussed what is suitable to do.  

US Pledge

What is a Pledge?

A pledge of allegiance to the USA flag and USA - surely is for US nationals (maybe citizens)? Firt of all, what is a pledge, not a word often used in the UK. A pledge is a view. Often of allegiance. Or moral support. Or to obey rules. Or to be faithful and honest.

Pledge Problem

A friend from Toastmasters, call her Siti, was at an online meeting. She joined in the US plege. A nationalist from her own country objected. Siti asked for views on correct procedure for visitors to online meetings and pledges.

Toastmasters Pledge

Toastmasters has a pledge to Toastmasters.



Prayers Starting Meetings

At the YMCA in Singapore the club starts with a prayer. Sometimes ending with a reference to Christianity. Sometimes, suitable for all religions. Sometimes words suitable for all religions and none, Sometimes with a preamble asking those who are members and Christians to join in, visitors to simply observe.

School Pledges

When our son was at school in the USA he was expected to say a pledge. Somebody in my family objected because our son was not American. My view was that a pupil from overseas should be asked to simply stand silently and respectfully, but not to be obviously different to his classmates which might have made him appear to be an outsider to the children and a rebel to the teachers.. The teacher has a procedure to go through, but should have a system in place to accommodate correct action for children and visitors who may not know what wording is coming or what they are expected to do.

Sports

The host country's national anthem is played first, then the anthem of the visiting team. This is not an option. It is not the host country pushing their way to the front when they could have stood aside, like two people politely at a doorway, saying, 'After you'. It is a standard rule.

No need to take offence. On the contrary, if you follow the procedure, everybody takes their turn, when appropriate. You praise the host first. (Who has generally organized the event and spent the money.) Then the honoured visitors, who are not left out, but must be included.

A pledge of allegiance to the USA - surely is for US nationals (maybe citizens)? Toastmasters has a pledge to Toastmasters. At the YMCA the club starts with a prayer. Sometimes ending with a reference to Christianity, sometimes, suitable for all religions, sometimes words suitable for all religions and none, sometimes with a preamble asking those who are members and Christians to join in, visitors to simply observe. When our son was at school in the USA he was expected to say a pledge. Somebody in my family objected because our son was not American. My view was that a pupil from overseas should be asked to simply stand silently and respectfully, but not to be obviously different to his classmates which might have made him appear to be an outsider to the children and a rebel to the teachers.. The teacher has a procedure to go through, but should have a system in place to accommodate correct action for children and visitors who may not know what wording is coming or what they are expected to do.

Weddings

The usual procedure is a toast to the queen or head of the host country. This is followed by a toast to the guest or visitors country. So a wedding to an American groom in America by a bride and her family from another country such as France, started with a toast to the president of the USA and ends with a toast to the president of the bride's country.

At a Jewish wedding in the UK, with Israeli visitors and a rabbi from Israel, the first toast is the loyal toast to H M the queen, then to the President of the state of Israel. The first time I saw it done I thought that was how they decided to do it to show their allegiance and dispel any suspicions of disloyalty. Later I discovered this was simply a universal protocol found in wedding etiquette guidebooks. (I wrote one, a simpified easy to read version, entitled Wedding Speeches & Toasts.)

Conclusion

The Toastmaster of the Day or m.c. should, or could, explain the purpose of the pledge and who is required to do what.

Useful Websites

US pledge

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pledge_of_Allegiance

Pledges in wiki

Toastmasters pledges

https://www.toastmasters.org/leadership-central/club-officer-tools/club-management/club-quality/invocations-pledges-and-controversial-topics


About the Author

Angela Lansbury is a member of Toastmasters International.

About the Author Angela Lansbury

The Author - Quick Quotations

Angela Lansbury B A Hons  is the author of ten books by regular publishers plus another ten self-published books. 

About Angela The Speaker & Trainer

Angela Lansbury is a teacher of English and other languages to Toastmasters clubs and businesses.

Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters Speakers Vice President  Public Relations, Immediate Past President. VPPR
Former Area Director S3. Club Coach for Nee Soon South Toastmasters Club.
Also Member of: TCA Toastmasters Club; Singapore Online Dynamic; Harrovians UK

Past meetings have included Garen Tee on using story telling in business, on bha.learncool.sg . 
Recent meetings of BHA included an educational session on using Powerpoint for posters.
Next BHA meetings, always first Wednesday evening, 7 pm Singapore time. Next meeting is  the third Saturday afternoon, June 19th 2pm Singapore time.  Inauguration of the new committee by the incoming Director of S, plus a lively speech on teamwork.
 S
Angela The Blogger 

Angela has several blogs speeches, comedy and song writing and organizing, writing intermittently, but writes almost daily on these three:

See next post on sculptor Tom Harvey.

Please share links to your favourite posts. 


Tuesday, March 9, 2021

How Do You Practise A Foreign Language When You Can't Travel?

 


My Toastmasters club, BHA, meets twice a month, Wednesday evening, 1st Wed in the month, and 3rd Saturday afternoon, Singapore time.. Here I am, top left, visiting another toastmasters club in Singapore, Astro, but I have also attended other clubs in the USA, and the UK.

You can see me looking down writing my language evaluation.

1 Toastmasters

You could go to a Toastmasters Club, either in (your target language such as Welsh, or in English. Record what you say and translate it.

You practise introducing yourself on arrival.

(My name, city, why are you here - to practise speaking. )

Then volunteer to do a table topic, (minimum one minute impromptu speech), after listening to the others.

If you like the club, join the club for under 200 dollars

You get membership, meetings for a year.

A club mentor will help you write a four minute introductory speech about yourself. You pick a path and your first speech is introduce yourself. You can follow the Toastmasters Outline Worksheet. Who are you (name), where are you from (city and country).

I plan to do this with Chinese. I have done it with French.

I belong to four clubs, Harrovians in the UK, Singapore online, and I am a member of TCA in Singapore and PR for Braddell Heights Advanced.

Come along to my club BHA in Singapore to get the idea.

To practise your reading, look for a club whose website is in your target language and paste words you do not know into translate google or turn on the translate button.

2 Polyglot Page on Facebook

Ask for somebody who wants to teach their language and learn yours. If native speakers are not avaiable, look for a buddy who is learning the same language as you. Schedule 5 minutes a week, or five minutes a day to say a sentence or two on an agreed subject such as introduce yourself, my hobby, my country, ordering food in a restaurant.

3 Earworms

A Berlitz course. I have discs and the small print accompanying booklet in a couple of languages including Chinese.

Useful Websites

bha.learncool.sg

BHA on Facebook.

duolingo

duolingo.com

memrise

memrise.com

About the Author

Angela Lansbury is a British author who has lived in the USA.

Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer.

Angela Lansbury teacher of English (advanced and English as a Second Language or English as a Foreign Language, French and other languages, aspiring polyglot.

Angela Lansbury, author and speaker. Member of many toastmasters  speaker training clubs and speaking contest judge.

Angela Lansbury, the author of 20 books including Wedding Speeches & Toasts, and Quick Quotations, has lived in the USA, Spain and Singapore. 
She  has several blogs and writes daily on at least two of the following:
Please share links to your favourite posts.

Saturday, January 16, 2021

Bahrain - the pearl of the islands


Flag of Bahrain. 



 Bahrain consists of several natural and man made islands and was known for pearl fishing. You can buy pearl jewellery in the malls. Other options include going pear diving with a company. You end up with your own shells to prize open and hope for a pearl. I prefer to have them ready drilled and mounted in jewellery, but I can see that diving for pearls is a novelty not offered on most holiday destinations.

Now you can visit a for with impressive inside arches and see the ruins of an ancient city alongside.

I spoke to a man from Bahrain who belongs to one of the oldest Toastmasters Clubs in Bahrain going back to the 1960s, I believe he said. 

I looked at Wikipedia and wikiyoyage and tripadvisor. 

They have a toastmasters club.

The items I saw on their Facebook page were pearls in gold settings.

When I went to Japan I bought grey pearls in silver and for years I was sent a catalogue. Pearls from Bahrain, or pearls from Japan, or maybe both, if you have a birthday or anniversary coming up. Within a year you should have both. Something for different tastes and budgets, or to match different outfits. 


Wind tower. To cool down buildings. I love this.

Ancient tree of life, survived centuries without water. Rather remote but an interesting novelty and subject for discussion.


the main landmark is the fort with the old ruins beside. 

Useful Websites

https://www.jumeirah.com/en/article/stories/bahrain/everything-you-need-to-know-about-the-pearls-of-bahrain

https://www.tripadvisor.com/AttractionProductReview-g293997-d15534256-The_Dilmun_Civilization-Manama.html#/media-atf/15534256/?albumid=101&type=0&category=101

https://www.facebook.com/Al-Mahmood-Pearls-1296405483718633/


UK Japanese pearls

https://www.mikimoto.co.uk/uk_en/jewellery/categories/necklaces?

About the Author

Tuesday, April 28, 2020

Correct British English - Especially Helpful for Speakers of Chinese (Mandarin) and Singlish


UK flag

I teach English to English speaking people and English as a Foreign Language (EFL).

What's the difference between English as a Foreign Language and English as a second language?

If you teach English as a foreign language, you start from scratch with the grammar. And vocabulary.

If you teach English as a second language, the students can make them selves understood, sometimes misunderstood. They often cannot be bothered to read grammar which they did years ago in school. They want to correct their pronunciation and to work out why nobody understands their intonation, although their vocabulary can be huge. They may be translating word by word from another language such as Chinese which has a different sentence structure. lacks the a and the, and has fewer tenses.

What I hear - What I would say and you should say in Correct English

B
I am boring - I am bored (boring is active, what you are in the process of doing to others, and how they feel when listening to you, whilst bored is passive, how you feel when listening to them)
I am never boring - I am never bored

I
I would like to introduce you - I would like to introduce to you

N
Narrative (Emphasize the first syllable. The middle a is short, like in a man, not ay as in pay.)

O
Off the light (Singlish) - turn off the light (the verb is required in English)

S
sword (the w is silent)

T
(the) team of the evening - (the) theme of the evening

This my first time - this is my first time
(a) Toemaster - (a) toastmaster

Tortoise (pronounced taught-us, short u like er, not taught-iss)

Useful Websites
Menti.com
Zoom
Toastmasters International Find a Club
https://www.toastmasters.org/find-a-club
learncool.sg
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8262085/College-student-shocked-professor-read-private-conversations-Zoom.html

About the Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. (Not related to the actress.)
Author of twenty books including: Quick Quotations; Who Said What When.
See books and profiles on Lulu.com and Amazon, such as Wedding Speeches & Toasts. Also watch videos on YouTube.

If you want to learn to speak the Queen's English, or Received Pronunciation. join me at my online toastmasters club,
Braddell Heights Advanced. Wednesdays, 7-9 Singapore time which is seven hours ahead of London, England.
I am also a member of
Singapore Online.9-12 pm, Singapore time, Fridays. I am also a member of
Tampines Changkat Advanced.
Harrovians, London.

See other posts on speaking, singers, statues, languages and destinations.
Please share links to your favourite posts.


Thursday, February 6, 2020

Hand Shaking And Hand Touching Alternatives During The Wuhan Crisis



Hands - apparently we all touch our faces ten times an hour. Shakes hands with somebody else, take a plate or spoon or pair of chopsticks, then touch the lift button on the way home - what can you do to avoid contamination?





Shaking Hands
.Let's start with shaking hands.

As President of Braddell Heights Advanced club I am expected to shake hands with members and visitors. That could be 8 to 10 or more people. .. 

At Emmaus Club I mentioned namaste.





Raymond demonstrated a Chinese greeting.

Then as Toastmaster of the Day, during an evening, I might shake hands with ten or more people, twice, as they enter the stage and leave it.


Namaste greeting in hotel.

Namaste
With the Wuhan coronavirus threatening the world in February 2020, I decided as toastmaster of the day at Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters International club, to give up our usual system of shaking hands to welcome guests and each time I enter and leave the stage. Instead I used the oriental Namaste greeting, a nod and pressing both hands palms together.

I then followed this by clapping my hands to encourage the audience to do the same to welcome the speaker onto the stage.

This worked well. I remembered every time.

The previous day I had visited Emmaus Catholic Toastmasters club, where I was the General Evaluator, commenting on the whole meeting. I had remembered to avoid hand shaking most of the time.

I was not able to stop others trying to hand around plates, and chopsticks. At the break time we had lo hei, which is a Singapore custom involving a communal plate of food.

You can buy it from supermarkets at assorted prices. The price varies according to the size and contents. The ingredients are various colours of vegetables, added sauces or spices. Depending on whether it includes fish, such as the more expensive smoked salmon, other fish, or is purely vegetarian and vegan.

About the Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. See later post on this subject. Please share links to your favourite posts.

Monday, September 23, 2019

Who Should You Accept As Friend On Facebook And Elsewhere?

Who to accept as friends?



1 Smiling faces. I just changed my profile from one of my books to a smiling face. After all this is Facebook, not Bookface.

2 I welcome other writers who know writers I know.

3 I welcome other Toastmasters who know toastmasters I know.

4 Close family who live overseas and write in a foreign language which I translate by clicking on translate to get the caption on the photo.

5 Cute pictures of animals.

Who not to accept as Facebook friends?

1 People whose posts are entirely their children or babies or who have children in their profile picture. My profile is public and I don't think their children should be on Facebook and I don't want to inadvertently expose them to risk.

3 Posts entirely in Chinese, Korean or Arabic which take ages to translate, deal with events and people I don't know, especially with lots of violence and political messages and rants against everyone and everything, could get me into trouble and don't contribute to my positive thinking day.

4 Closeups of snakes and pimples and cancer and knives and masked characters, whether real life or book covers. Maybe the best crime novel ever but I am looking for sweetness and light.

5 Anything which tells me to share this dire warming with everyone. It is spam. If it is a genuine police or government message there will be a link to a government website which I can show to somebody living in the same house without burdening total strangers with fake news or spam.

Now, to end by sending a positive note, you know why some poeple are rejected but you are or will be my rational and genuine good friend.

Angela Lansbury, author and speaker. President of Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters club. (See Facebook pages.)

Sunday, September 22, 2019

How To Social Media to Advertise Events: Facebook, Meetup, Eventbrite

When holding an event in your home country or overseas, you need to know how to get publicity. Nowadays social media is the thing. Here are some of the suggestions which I have been exploring for my club, Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters International Speakers' Club in Singapore.


Braddell Heights Advanced Speakers' Club in Singapore.

I belong to four clubs, two public speaking clubs in London and two in Singapore.

In London the first club I joined was Harrovians. The club began meeting in a pub in Harrow. It moved to another pub, then three more location, a pub in Harrow Weald, a hall in Stamore, and a church hall in Stanmore, before coming back to Harrow to meet in a baptist church. You can see the Harrovians page on Facebook.

I later joined HOD in London. They moved from Stanmore to Harrow..

Facebook
You can make a page for a club and its events, mention an event on your home page, or even make a page for an event, such as an annual conference. I have attended Writers Holiday in Wales and Writers' Summer School in Derbyshire, England. Both attract visitors from all ove the world through their Websites and we keep in touch with each other throughout the year on Facebook. You can have one official page for publicising the event and another for chatting and news of members.

Meetup
In Singapore I have just joined Meetup. This proved very successful for bringing in new members in London and for several clubs in Singapore.

The system is similar to many others. You pick a name for your group, load up a name, add a profile for yourself. You have a calendar for future events.You can add photos from events.

Promotion Throurgh Changing Your Personal Or Club Photo
Decide which photo shows your people and activities best. What does it say about you. For example, a business admin college decided they wanted viewers of their page to get the idea that the college and the college society would help you get employment or a well paid job. So they changed out of their casual clothes into business suits with brief cases and ran a tagline along the lines of enhance your career with our college degree and network at our college club.

My club Braddell Heights Advanced is an advanced club so I choose a picture which shows us with ribbons or trophies.

Another club, Jurong Green Advanced. found that beginners were discouraged or confused by the name advanced, so the club changed its name to English (to distinguish itself from another club at the same venue called Mandarin.

If you are in Singapore come along to Braddell ieghts Advanced Toastmsters International Speakers' Club.  The cost is only ten Singapore dollars and you will gain an enormous amount of information about job interviews, networking and media and social life, relationships and even your dating or love life.

Eventbrite
Eventbrite offers lots of options. You can change the admin from one person to another, eg a colleague at your business. You can have a sub-user.

You can accept payment in various currencies.

You can run events free, no fee to Eventbrite. Or have earlybird free. That would allow you to change and upgrade fees later if you decide you need the money or the event is nearly full and you want to be sure that those who sign up will turn up.

So, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Meetup, Eventbrite, lots of options.

Please check out Braddell Heights Advanced speakers club on Facebook, Meetup and so on. In the next month you will see our page improving.

About the Author
Angela Lansbury, President of Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters Club. Meetings the first Wednesday evening of every month from 7 to 9.30 or ten, depending on the number of speakers, and the third Saturday afternoon 2-5.  

Wednesday, September 18, 2019

When Travellers Need Impromptu Speaking: chat up to Hotel Check-in, job interview, and elevator speech

Mark Twain said it takes three weeks to write a good impromptu speech.



Plaque to Twain on Sydney Writers' Walk, Australia. Photo from Wikipedia article on Mark Twain.

 If you are short of ideas, have a quotation on travel or any subject relevant to yourself, your work or your destination. On the one hand, 't is better to travel in hope than to arrive'.

On the other hand, you can find advertising slogans and songs about many countries and destinations: New York, New York ...' -
-' maybe it's because I'm a Londoner,'
'if you can make it there, you can make it anywere,.
it's my kind of town.

As for travelling companions, Disraeli said,
'My idea of an agreeable person, is a person who agrees with me.'

'Talk to a man about himself and he will listen for hours.'
'Travel teaches toleration.'

Be Prepared
Whenever you go to a pre-arranged gathering, such as a conference or wedding, you might have a chance to speak. Even everyday, on a plane of train of bus, you may have a chance to speak unprepared. But whey be unrpepared when you can be prepared! Travellers need impromptu speaking.

Impromptu speaking often meanders, but it is more successful for the speaker and listener if you can establish something in common and exchange useful information.

You can start by telling where you are from or where you are going. (Not if this is a security risk.) Or ask the taxi driver, or passenger on the bus, about their immediate or long term plans.

Sales Talk
Rember that the shopkeeper who asks whre you are staying may be planning to double his prices or produce more expensive goods if you are staying in a five star hotel. That is why he is asking. Not just to be polite.

Statue of Disraeli, Parliament Square, London, England, UK.

Disraeli said that nobody is ever bored talking about themselves.

Why Speak If You Are Not Selling?
Some popeo say you are always selling something. If you are not selling an object, or a service, or being an ambassador for your country or religion, you are selling yourself.

Let's make a list of reasons for smalltalk.
1 To establish goodwill.
2 To feel at ease with strangers and crowds.

Now for more improtant messages:
3 To be succinct in an emergency.
4  When making a simple request for directions or help.
5 To have the courage to speak up. The better prepared you are, the faster you can start.

Asking For A Loan
If you went into a bank in your home city to ask for a loan you would probably rehearse what you were going to say and anticipate any objections.

You can do the same when travelling.

Transport
What do you say to the taxi driver to the airport? Can you persuade him to take a different route if you are late?

Is he a reliable source of information on rstaurants, or just promoting a place newly opened which has bought breakfast for all the local taxi drivers?

Hotels
If the hotel cannot find your booking, do you have your facts and figures ready.
I booked on such and such a date, starting this date, ending this date. I booked through this system. I used this credit card. I am booked under this name,.  Here is my letter of confimation.

Job Inteviews
If you meet the boss of the company on your way into the building to the interview can you introduce yourself in a way which will make him want to tell his personnel department to hire you.

Longhaul Travel
How to entertain your fellow passengers on the plane. How to tell them you want to watch the film without offending them?

Business Cards
Have a business card handy. I have so often chatted to somebody on a bus or train and then they jump up and say, 'This is my stop - bye!' Both of us are distrssed we have no time to exchange details.

If you are alone, you can tear a piece of A4 paper into 8 smaller pieces and write down sixteen sujects you can talk about.

If somebody ask about your family, will you bore the listener with trivia, or can you impart useful advice. For example, Do you have a method for keeping children quiet on a journey? Can you tell another family about how to get cheaper admission to a theme park?

Where also can yo practice on stage before a real live audience?

Practising Motvational Positive Topics
I went to a postgraduate students group who were attending a Toastmasters meeting. The table topics session consisted of fie speakers pulling objects out of a bag and speaking about them.

On my way to a contest on table topics (impromptu speaking) I rehearsed a series of topics with ny husband. We were travelling on a train for about half an hour.
He suggested:
What do you like about train travel?
What do you think about being late?
Do you procrastinate?
Your topic is "The Ticket".
Strangers.
Friends.
Old people.
Babies.
Lovers.
Marriage.
Noise.
Reading.
Your favourite book.
Plan ahead.
Don't miss out.


Toastmasters Clubs Worldwide
At many Toastmasters clubs visitors are invited to speak in the table topic session. Toastmasters International has groups in more than 100 countries. To find a group, look at their find a club page.
You can limit your search to a specific distance from your location, to a day of week, or type of club.

Useful Websites
australia.com
visitbritain.com
https://www.toastmasters.org/find-a-club

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker. Please share links to your favourite posts.

Sunday, July 21, 2019

Are Malay and Indonesian the same?

We thought that Malay and Indonesian were almost the same. So when we opened our meeting of Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters club in Signapore, I thought it would be welcoming and a novelty to open with greetings in Chinese and Malay.

The Malay was to honour our installing officer (installing the new committee) who was from the bilingual English and Malay speaking club, Jauhari toastmasters. By now, you might already be a bit confused, as I am.

Let's start with the flags.
The Indonesian flag is similar to the Singaporean flag. Red band on top, white band below.

Indonesian Flag


Singaporean Flag
Red and white with a white crescent and five five point white stars. Like a mixture of East and West - European.



Malay Flag
Red and white stripes. Yellow crescent and multi-point star in yellow on blue background.


US flag
Red and white stripes and white 5-point stars on blue for the states.




Now let's look at the languages. British English and American English are similar. 'two countries divided by a common language.'

The Malay language and Indonesian have a huge amount of shared vocabulary. If you know one you can get by in the other.

But the words for good afternoon are different. As we discovered at Braddell Heights Advanced Toastmasters on July 20 2019. Our installing officer was Muhammad Nurhakim from Jauhari Bilingual Toastmasters, which is a club in Singapore whose members speak English and Malay.

English - Malay
good afternoon - selamat tenga

English - Indonesian
good afternoon - selamat sore

Under Google translate the translation for selamat is congratulations or safe or secure.

Useful Websites
https://www.facebook.com/groups/polygotcommunity/
https://www.google.com/
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_Standard_Malay_and_Indonesian

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Tuesday, April 2, 2019

Good Manners At Meetings: phones, chairs, latecomers, escorting visitors to and fro

Phones
Turn off phones or switch to silent and buzz. But remember to turn them on again. If you are a Toastmasters and ask people to turn off phones, it is only fair to tell them when they can turn on phones again.

At a recent meeting, after the break, I head the Toastmaster of the Day say:
If you have been using your phone in the break, please turn it back to silent again.

Sharing Food
Do not take the last piece of cake, the last banana, or anything else. Offer it to others or offer to share it. You might say, "I can't eat a whole one. Can you help me out? Can you take half?"

Dividing Food
Divide the food using the wrapper as a barrier to your fingers, or take the piece which you have pulled away so that the other person gets what is 'untouched by human hand'.

Fetching Chairs
At a meeting, if an older person or visitor needs a chair, fetch one. Leave a spare chair near the door for the convenience of latecomers, to avoid embarrassing them and to save disturbing the speaker and other members of the audience..

Latecomers
If somebody texts you to say they are late because of traffic or working late, the announcer can explain this, to save embarrassment for the latecomer, and tell visitors that it's ok to be late, so long as you alert the organizers so they can adjust the timing of the agenda.

Walking and Taking Lifts
If you decide to take the stairs to get exercise, look and see if your companions are elderly or limping and carrying one, two or more heavy bags. If so, offer to carry one or more or all items.

Don't allow a person wearing trainers to force a group of people wearing high heels to follow on a long journey.

In a group, the leader should stop at corner to ensure the latecomers know the direction.

Pedestrian Safety - And Mobile Phones
In some countries it is illegal to cross a road whilst looking at a phone. Or to drive a car.

Better safety for all of us.

Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker 

Tuesday, February 5, 2019

Telephone Manners Worldwide - and my business training



Announcing Numbers When Answering
In the early days of the phone, you always answered with your phone number. After WW2 a number in the UK was the name of the exchange, then only four digits. that was easy to remember and quick to say.

Many people consider it polite to say the phone number. This saves the caller from spending time explaining their problem to the wrong number, wrong extension, wrong person.

If you meet an elderly person, in their seventies or eighties or nineties, (writing in 2019) in the UK, they will probably be able to remember their first phone numbers. Their childhood or first home household numbers from the good old days of short numbers, constantly repeated.

Longer Numbers
Then along came longer numbers. Harder to remember. International numbers with two or three digit country codes at the start. Ten digits for mobile phones.


I asked a cleaner for his number. He could not remember it. First we wrote his number on his phone so he could read it off when speaking to somebody else.

Then we practised the number. I broke it down into pairs of numbers. I asked his house number, his age, his birthdate. His lucky number. His children's ages. His wife's age and birthdate. His mother's birthday. The age at which he could retire.A date he knew well such as 1066, 1492, 1812.Memory aids for single numbers. I won one. Two for tea. Threes a crowd. family of four. Beethoven's Fifth. Six, pick up sticks. Seven days of the week. 8 don't be late. Nine feeling fine. Ten a big fat hen. Legs eleven. 12 baker's dozen. Unlucky 13. Sweet 16. 18 come of age. Life begins at 40. 67 at sixes and sevens. I can retire at 60/65/70/75. 70 - is three score years and ten. Numbers in a football or rugby team.

I soon found something memorable, using numbers he already knew well, to recall the first pair of numbers. I looked for numbers which were multiples of the first pair, or repeated one of the first two digits. We soon found easy ways for him to remember his own number. I made him write it down. Than say it to me three times.

Safety & Privacy Concern
As time moved on, then families became smaller, with young women living alone, and single mothers. Single women received nuisance calls.

Hello? Who's Speaking?
They were advised to be more circumspect. They stopped revealing their name or number and started saying merely, 'hello?'

Over in Singapore, where Chinese speakers are used to short, succinct sentences, the opening, Hello, when you are ringing a big company, is annoying to British, Australian and New Zealand customers.

Correctly Pronouncing Company Names
If the phone operator or employee can't pronounce the company name, sometimes they might prefer not to say it. At HOD toastmasters in London I met a man from Thailand who was trying to improve his English by attending a Toastmasters Club of which he was a member. (You can attend and listen at many public clubs for free. Priority on the programme is given to members, so if you want to practise presentations or speeches you need to find a nearby club, or one which is welcoming, and join it.) he was also learning pronunciation at a class at City Lit in central London.

He told me that he worked for the Loyal Bank of Scotland.


I assumed the company, Royal
Bank of Scotland, which at that time had bad publicity in the papers, had changed its name. Half an hour later, hearing him mispronounce other words, I realized he was working for the Royal Bank of Scotland. No change in the name.

So the first task of a company or employee is to be able to say the company name.

You can hear your British and Commonwealth colleagues covering the phone and muttering to themselves or you, "For heavens' sake - why don't they say the company name!"

Polite Phrases
One way to open politely is, How can I help you?

A switchboard operator should announce that they are the switchboard, and ask if the caller knows which department they need. That saves the caller from launching their problem wasting the switchboard operator's time, and having to repeat the problem all over again. If their are only two or three options available the operator could give the choices, such as, this is the switchboard, do you need service or spares?

If possible, if the extension is playing music, or not answering, the caller should be put through to the boss or secretary for the department to take a message, or the switchboard operator could record a message in handwriting or voice recording.

Better Business English Workshops By Angela Lansbury
I presented Better Business English again to a Toastmasters International speakers' club group. We did the interactive telephone task, in pairs, pretending to be a phone operator answering callers, and a customer. The fluent English speakers immediately grasped the purpose of the exercise, to speak good English on the phone, and speak clearly and be polite and helpful.

What was not clear to them was whether to do one conversation in four minutes or whether to swap roles? If I had wanted them to swap roles, I should have rung the bell after two minutes.

I have done this workshop to several groups in Singapore and the UK. If you know a company which would like staff training, I am repeating and improving my business training so that I can sell my services. I am a native English speaker and lifelong student of NLP (positive thinking in a systematic fashion). I'm improving my interactive tasks at Toastmasters International. Any clubs wanting a workshop, please contact me.

Tips
1 Practise pronouncing company names correctly.
2 Speak slowly and clearly when answering the phone.
3 Say your name clearly. Spell it.
4 Learn the local ways of answering the phone.


(For example, Japanese mushi mushi).
But teach local employees how to answer all kinds of foreign callers.
5 When speaking in public, in restaurants and on trains, lower your voice. That way you do not disturb others nearby. You do no reveal company secrets to bystanders.
6 On mobile phones, turn off sound on phones when in bathrooms and toilets. Even if others cannot see you, they can hear toilets flushing.


7 Turn off sound at night. Do not complain when others call you at night their time. If possible, learn to give an outgoing message saying in how many minutes or hours you will return calls.
8 Do not reveal that your home is empty, when working from home.
9 Do not reveal that the company is closed. That might attract thieves. Or send buyers to another company. Simply say that you are away from your desk.
10 If possible, give an emergency number or email. Or an alternative way of ordering. Have an emergency number for when the main phone has a long wait time or does not work.
Check that your outgoing message does not refer callers to a website which is not monitored but simply refers the reader back to the phone number.
11 If you are busy, and want to get straight to the point without chatting, and how are you, you can open with the company, and location or branch eg This is Woolworths Head Office. My name is (eg Michael / Maria.. .Department (eg Customer service)..How can I help you?
12 Smiling makes your lips wider so even though the other person cannot see you smiling, you sound happy and ready to help.
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Useful websites
https://www.wikihow.com/Answer-the-Phone-Politely
Author
Angela Lansbury, travel writer and photographer, author and speaker.
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